This is written for all the wives, girlfriends and that lady who is very keen on the “hunk” who works at the office next door. If you want to get him wrapped around your little finger, you have to know what makes him tick and what to do. Using Western Astrology I will reveal to you the characteristics of your man’s vulnerable spots. So without further ado, here we go –
The Aries man – He tends to be possessive and is very clear about his likes and dislikes. Nice external appearances is very high on his list of must-haves. At least whoever she is must be pleasing to his eyes. From time to time flatter his ego and praise him. Also give him a surprise sensually to his senses. All these things will help you gain major points with him. He tends to be physically active so you cannot be all docile and dependent. When he is busy or preoccupied, you should also leave him alone and do your own thing. His hunting instinct is turned on by females who seemed to be self-independent and have a passion for life. An active, athletic pretty female who happens to have a clueless personality (think Pamela Anderson in Baywatch) will have a devastating effect on him.
The Taurus Man – A man who loves enjoying life and pays much attention to his lifestyle choices, he tends to possess a cool exterior but a passionate heart. When he meets the girl of his fancy, there will not be any flashy declarations of love but instead likely be low-keyed and methodological. Occasionally vain, he may show-off his properties and good fortune to others. Sometimes he even considers you as his “property”. To the sensuous Taurus man who prefers physical closeness, a elegant and quiet, considerate and cute female who loves to give hugs will be his Achilles heel.
The Gemini Man – A multi-talented and social man who is indecisive lover, dislike complications plus being naturally curious, makes him very easily distracted. He also tends to have a very short attention span. As the Gemini man likes to share his ideas and creativity with his lover, you must have a wide spectrum of interests to keep him interested. A man who changes his mind easily as the wind changes direction, he appreciates girl with intelligence, youth and substance. Any verbally tasteless, stereotyping girl who likes to interfere with who he makes friends with will not stand a chance with him. An intelligent, quick-witted female news anchor-type will arouse his interest.
The Cancer Man – He is a passive and will not be the first to take the initiative, will be deeply committed once he decided that you are the one. The stubborn but very considerate Cancer man, will always put his family first. He will likely not be the life of the party due to his low humor quotient but he holds very highly to the ethics of love. He will likely look at a relationship as a premise to marriage. The parents views will be the yardstick to measure up the potential-love-of-his-life. Furthermore, some Cancer men carries the Oedipal complex with them will have a soft spot for a woman’s breasts. A girl who know how to be observant, can coax the Cancer man almost like one does a child. A female who also possess maternal traits and have good managerial skills who can arrange his life for him will have him around her fingers like putty.
The Leo Man – The radiant and macho (chauvinistic) Leo man, tends to be self-centered, convinced he is the center of the universe. To attract his eyeballs, you must be the brightest, most attention-stealing person in the crowd or someone who everyone talks about. The Leo man loves to be the center of attention, the flavor of the month so to speak. They will mind whether their subject matter have everyone’s attention and will bathe happily in the adoration of his admirers. If you are elegant, outstanding, flashy but (most importantly) put him on the highest pedestal and worship him, you will have him in your pocket in no time.
The Virgo Man – He is a discerning perfectionist, with strict attention to details and taking to heart any and all minor nuances. Do not make the mistake in thinking he is old-fashioned and conservative. Your image to him is very important. You have to be elegant and decent, be of decent speech, careful and considerate but not shallow nor noisy. He will observe you for a considerable period of time your intelligence, thriftiness, cleanliness. Females with all these traits plus is talented will pass through his observation period with flying colors. But in reality, he’s already yours long ago.
The Libra Man – A man who puts great importance on friendships and appearances, he inevitably cannot separate between love and life. A natural romantic, when it comes to someone he cares about, will try his best to be gain her favor and fulfill her every wish. He puts a high priority on his personal relationships and at the same time being a darling at social events, is highly vulnerable to a female who possesses the same similar skills. But more importantly if she is also elegant, able to capture the attention of those around her and especially be good with people, he might as well just hand you the keys to his heart.
The Scorpio Man – Warm and friendly but possesses a clear distinction between love and hate, the Scorpio man has a unique charm that is likely to stun. Being naturally suspicious and always worried of being emotionally hurt, during moments of uncertainty, even when internally he is past the boiling point, externally he will maintain a cool and frosty appearance. When he senses that you have more than having a passing interest and he has locked onto you as a target, he will spill his guts to you, doing whatever it takes to please you. A female who is gentle, honest, possessing a sexy temperament but at the same time also having an air of innocence is guaranteed to steal his suspicious heart.
The Sagittarius Man – He is naturally frank, candid and happy-go-lucky type of guy. He dislikes females who are emotionally needy and “sticky”. If you are independent, have your own individual views and able to draw inferences from an instance, sensible and smart, able to match his speed of thought, plus being caring but at the same time don’t let him feel caged without freedom, he will be like a kite soaring in the skies, and the person holding the string on the ground will be you. Only a female who knows how to fly a kite will have a permanent space in his heart.
The Capricorn Man – Possessing a outwardly cool and collected demeanor, without much mirth, is the Capricorn man. To him, career will always be the first priority as power and prestige is of much importance. To be his lover, one must be sensible and steady, able to help him manage his career or engage his contacts, the one to put the phrase “behind every successful man is a woman” into action. Ideally you should be able to be both his lover and business partner. Also, a Capricorn man is meticulous with his work. He tends to hide his feelings and will not take the initiative to pursue the opposite sex but has a hardworking personality. The female who holds to the traditional view of “the wife should always be supportive the husband”, will be stand a better chance in hooking him.
The Aquarius Man – A generally subjective and reasonable philanthropist, to the Aquarius man, love seems ethereal. The best thing you can do is not to show signs of possessiveness. So long as it is established that both of you are in love with each other, why the need for constant, undivided attention? He like the “both lover and friend” arrangement. A man ahead of the times, you have to be able to come up with creative and fresh ideas to keep up with his pace of change. A female who uses emotional blackmail will guarantee his disappearance. But one who is independent, confident, smart and loves her own space and freedom will grab his curiosity and interest.
The Pisces Man – He is a moody romantic and a sentimentalist. Getting into dubious affairs is not hard for him due to his gentlemanly nature. Even if he is not really that into you, he will be very friendly and considerate, creating a humorous and romantic atmosphere making you feel pampered. Overwhelmed, you will want to spend more time with him. A female who can understand his feelings, and also help him build his dreams, proving to him that he is not boring or vulgar, accepting of his outworldlyness will be able to master his heart.
– Guest post by Esther Teh (Master Western Astrologer at Love & Healing Space.com)
Note: this is just a general and very basic assessment of the personality and characteristic of what a typical astrological male is be like. There are other considerations that will intensify or diminish the above characteristics. For a more in-depth and comprehensive analysis there is the Personal Astrological Profile and if you want to know how to keep your current relationship going smoothly and in constant tip-top condition, consider our Compatibility Analysis Report. It had been known to help head-off a few near divorces and saved many a relationships from silly misunderstandings that got too ungainly to differences in both parties’ communication methods.
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