Now imagine this: You got into a car and hands your driver a map. “Where to?” asks the driver. “Somewhere fun.” you answered. Chances are, you’ll be driven to somewhere, anywhere other than the place you most wanted to go. That is assuming you know where you wanted to go in the first place. Something similar goes on during a Bazi consult and in my experience there are 3 types of clients: The Skeptic, The Sniper and The Sotong.
First of all The Skeptic. He or she comes to a consult without any purpose other than expecting you to convince him or her that Bazi is “real”. Personally I feel that this is fine if they kept an open mind but more often than not they have already made up their mind about the subject but that is a whole other subject for another day. But we do have quite a few “converts”, though.
And there is The Sniper. This is my favourite kind of client. They know what they want and ask accordingly. “Should I go into a partnership in the import/export business in such-and-such-a-place?” “What should I be paying attention to if I wanted to switch careers this year?” Their questions are specific and clear. For some reason, often these questions tend to come from business owners, CEOs and high achievers.
Then there is The Sotong and the purpose of this article. For those of you who don’t know, Sotong is a Malay word for squid and it has also another meaning which means “clueless”. (Oh, before you flood my mailbox with hate mail, I meant that in an endearing way.)
Tell me if these sound familiar:
Q “Will I be rich?”
Q “When will I be rich?”
A “After 35.”
Q “Will I get married?”
Q “Will I die?” [Don't laugh. This actually happened.] [Found out later that the client had a small operation scheduled.]
A “Yes.” [All the while keeping a straight face.]
Now what is the problem (for want of a better word) with the above questions? Ok, let me put it another way, how helpful are those questions to you if you are the client? Not very, right? Yet those are the typical kind of questions clients ask during a consult. Not that it makes any difference to me since I’m already paid for my time BUT the consult should make a difference in the client’s life and move it forward for the money and time spent! If not, why even bother booking a consult in the first place? As such, it would be advantageous if one would spend a little time and think about the questions when answered will move that goal or plan along BEFORE sitting down with one’s Bazi consultant. Because at the end of the day we are not deities and we also cannot read minds. We can only tell you what is revealed in your chart. Questions like “Tell me about my life.” or “Why am I so unlucky?” are too general and open-ended. There is no purpose. No options. No value. No destination.
Like I said, I can be paid to entertain you with pointless facts from your birth chart for an hour or two; or I can help you steer your life towards your goals and aspirations using the shortest route available. Your choice.
Tomorrow marks the 15th day Fulll Moon of the 7th Lunar month and is the start of the Mid-Year Festival (中元节zhōng yuán jié) otherwise also more commonly known as the Chinese Ghost Month. Traditionally the sufferings of ancestors are appeased by making offerings of food and incense at the ancestral shrine or home altar.
According to Taoism, Shan-Yuan (first period of the year) Festival is on the 15th lunar day of the first lunar month, which is the Lantern Festival. Chung-Yuan (middle period of the year) Festival is on the 15th lunar day of the 7th lunar month. Xia-Yuan (last period of the year) Festival is on the 15th lunar day of the 10th lunar month. The 7th lunar day of the 7th lunar month also happens to be the Chinese Valentine Day. There are many inauspicious taboos in the 7th lunar month. Most Chinese will avoid getting married in the Ghost Month.
Some common taboos during the Chinese Ghost Month.
Don’t purchase new home
Don’t move into new house
Don’t hang clothes outside during the night
Don’t open an umbrella indoors
Don’t swim during the night
Don’t camp outdoors during the night
Don’t use the mirror at midnight
Don’t whistle on the quiet street at night
Don’t pick up coins or unique items off the street
Don’t peel apple and light up white candle in the front of mirror
Don’t do surgery of any kind
Don’t insert chopsticks into the rice in a bowl.
– from http://chinesenewyearday.com
Now whether you subscribe to the above is up to personal beliefs, especially if one is neither a practicing Taoist nor of Chinese descent. But my advice is to respect the unknown. Stranger things had happened.
Here’s wishing all my readers, friends and clients are very blessed Vesak in 2014 and I would like to share a small section of the Kamala Sutra on this auspicious day:
“Now, Kalamas, don’t go by reports, by legends, by traditions, by scripture, by logical conjecture, by inference, by analogies, by agreement through pondering views, by probability, or by the thought, ‘This contemplative is our teacher.’ When you know for yourselves that, ‘These qualities are skillful; these qualities are blameless; these qualities are praised by the wise; these qualities, when adopted & carried out, lead to welfare & to happiness’ — then you should enter & remain in them.”
Many of you would find the above more familar by its more common (but incorrect) internet version: Believe nothing, no matter where you read it or who say it, unless it agrees with your own reason and common sense. [Especially funny feng shui practices that is unexplainable, has no basis or logic to it.]
Today is 4th February 2014. This is the first day of the Wood Horse according to the feng shui year. It is known as Li Chun (立春) or the Beginning of Spring. It is also the start of the feng shui year. On this day the Snake “hands” over his duties over to the Horse for his turn on the one-year roster.
Have you changed or updated your house feng shui yet, notably the Northwest and East sectors?
Also it is also good if you can deposit some money (amount not important) into your bank account/s to bring yourself some wealth luck for 2014. You have until 11pm (your own local time) to do so because after 11pm it will be considered the 2nd day of Spring already.
This year we are offering a new life analysis method based on the time-tested Bazi study of 60 Jia-Zi. So what is this 60 Jia-Zi?
In advanced Bazi, the Jia-Zi (a combination of the Heavenly Stem and Earthly Branch) forms one of the 4 Pillars of a person’s Chinese astrological birth chart and normally the Day Pillar is used. In turn this Day Pillar is perceived as an image to determine multiple things like objects, events, industries, businesses, people, places and even individual characters. And because there are actually 60 of such combinations, it makes a person’s Jia-Zi, which is based on the date of birth, highly personal and individualistic unlike the 12 Astrological Animal Signs or the 12 Zodiac signs commonly used in the west that uses the year of birth to determine outcome.
A personal Jia-Zi is used to assess person’s inner most character and personality and from there establish what the year will bring in various areas of his or her life like career, relationships, health and of course, wealth.
Which brings us back to our new astrological service, Personal 60 Jia-Zi Luck Analysis Report specifically for 2014 (and will be valid up until 3rd Feb 2015). In this informative PDF report you will find what’s in store for you personally in the year of the Wood Horse in 4 major areas of concern (Career, Relationship, Health and Wealth) of your life. With is personalized information about yourself, you will be better prepared to manage the ups and downs, surprises and opportunities in these 4 important areas! Plus there will be a monthly breakdown of what to watch out for.
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On 31st January 2014, all Chinese everywhere celebrates the Chinese New Year and I would like to take this opportunity to wish all my readers, old and new a very Auspicious Chinese New Year!!
And for good measure, on the first day of Chinese New Year if you want to begin on a lucky note that will last all throughout the year, you might want to do the following:
1) During the hours between 11pm (of 30th Jan) to 3m and 7am to 1pm, after leaving the house, head East to “meet” the God of Nobility and receive his blessings;
2) Alternatively, heading West or North during the same timings above is also auspicious;
3) Avoid, if possible, heading in the directions of Southeast or South, especially during the hours of 1pm to 5pm or 11pm to 1am (of 1st Feb). If where you needed to go to happens to be in the Southeast or South, it is better to head East first before heading to your destination;
4) The hours of 3am to 7am, too are not suitable for heading out or for traveling.
Hope with this everyone can have a prosperous and very auspicious 2014! Huat ah!
Every Chinese New Year, millions of Chinese all over the world will welcome The God of Wealth into their homes or offices. This year is no difference but only with a caveat.
The God of Wealth will arrive from the Southon 31st Januarybetween 1am to 3am for the year of the Wood Horse.
But this year, we have a problem as the Tai Sui (aka Grand Duke Jupiter) is also arriving from the South although technically only after a couple of days later on 4th February at 6.03am.
Personally, my recommendation is to welcome the God of Nobility 贵神 arriving from the East between 1am to 3am instead of the God of Wealth.
To welcome the God of nobility, all you have to do is to open all East-facing windows or doors during the auspicious hours stated. That’s all there is to it unless you choose to follow the Taoist-religious route with all the praying and offerings.
For added good measure, if you can go out of your house and walk south during the listed timings, so much the better. This is an option if you happen to not have any east-facing windows or doors.
Please note: People born in the year of the Monkey should not be the one doing the welcoming.