Auspicious Wedding Dates for 2013

Of the most important events in one’s life, getting married is undoubtedly one of them.

The right timing, for a long term commitment like marriage,  is very critical to ensure that the date and hour chosen are compatible to the birth dates of BOTH the bride and the groom. This is to make sure that on this important day the energies surrounding the happy couple are at the most auspicious and prosperous for them and will follow them throughout as they begin their new life together as husband and wife bringing them happiness, harmony and good fortune!

These are the auspicious dates for weddings in the year 2013 – please note the emphasis is on the Registry Of Marriage date (or the date you choose to sign the wedding papers).

Note also that these dates are GENERAL AND GENERIC in nature – and are not yet fine tuned to suit your Bazi (birth chart) and does not yet include the fine tuning of auspicious hours.


Jan – 2, 7, 19, 24, 31

Feb – 9, 15, 19, 21

Mar – 2, 6, 9, 12, 18, 24

Apr – 4, 6, 13, 16, 21

May – 7, 8, 15, 19, 24, 25, 28, 30, 31

Jun – 1, 3, 4, 5, 10, 11, 13, 19, 25, 29, 30

Jul – 4, 12, 16, 17, 24, 28

Aug – 5, 6, 7, 10, 19, 24, 26, 29, 31

Sep – 3, 8, 11, 12, 14, 20, 26

Oct – 6, 9, 19, 28, 31

Nov – 6, 8, 9, 10, 14, 15, 20, 21, 24, 30

Dec – 3, 4, 8, 13, 16, 25, 28, 31

 

All the auspicious dates above are provided free but if you want the best and most auspicious wedding date chosen according to your birth date, it will naturally require fine tuning work. Kindly email us at info@tenki.sg to enquire about our fees and services as we also provide Specific Date and Time Selection for marriages as well as other important occasions. Kindly note that we use multiple modalities to help ensure that the dates selected are very auspicious for this lovely occasion!

 

Oh, by the way, it is fine if you want to check whether the DATE (singular) you picked to get married in is auspicious or not but please refrain from asking me what is the best date to get married or what are the good dates in 2014, etc. Also, kindly avoid fishing for dates with multiply posts or wait until the 27th of the month and then asking me to suggest a good date for that month. All of these posts will end up in the trash unanswered. :(

If you seriously want to know what is the BEST date, you can choose from either one of the two wedding date selection packages available, located at the upper right corner of this page. Thank you. :)

847 comments to Auspicious Wedding Dates for 2013

  • Yanet

    Hi there my fiance’s DOB is on July 12th,1989 and mine is on June 11th, 1984. we were thinking in having our ROM on August 9th, 2013 and our ceremony on the 17th, are these good dates? also I’m really confused about the time for our wedding, is it a 2pm a better time than 5pm? or noon instead? I’m just trying to create a good feng shui for my wedding. Please help! Thanks :D

    • Stanley

      Hi Yanet,

      You can get married on August 9th although it is not an ideal date and it would be better if you get married after 1pm. But personally, my advice is that you get your auspicious wedding date properly and professionally selected by a feng shui master that you trust as this is a once-in-a-lifetime occassion. :)

  • tony

    Hi Stanley

    I am Rabbit 12 Jan 1976 n she is Monkey 28 Dec 1980.

    Can i check if 30 Jan 2013 at 10 am is a good day for our ROM?

    Thank you very much

  • cheryl

    hi stanley!
    Is October 19, 2013 good wedding date for us?

    bride- June 22, 1984
    Groom- JUly 17, 1983

    thank you!

    • Stanley

      Hi Cheryl,

      I am sorry to inform you that October 19, 2013 although is generally a good day for marriage, personally for you it is NOT an auspicious day for a wedding. And 2013 is also not a good year for your fiance to get married because it is his Breaker Year unless a very auspicious day is selected. If you haven’t confirmed your wedding date yet my suggestion is to get it properly chosen according to both your birth dates so that both of you can get married on the most auspicious day available so as to make sure that harmony and prosperity are with both of you on your wedding day.

  • Jason

    Hi Stanley,

    Sorry, please ignore the previous question as I used the wrong date.

    My fiancee and I intend to hold our wedding ceremony on 03 Nov 2013 (农历十月初一). I’m born on 18 July 1982 (Dog) and she’s born on 17 Nov 1981 (Rooster). Will this be an auspicious date for us? Kindly advise, thanks!

    Regards,
    Jason

    • Stanley

      Hi Jason,

      3rd Nov is a Total Sun Eclipse day which is considered inauspicious for major activities like marriage where auspiciousness and harmony is very important. If you haven’t confirmed your wedding date yet my suggestion is to get it properly chosen according to both your birth dates so that both of you can get married on the most auspicious day available as you only do this once. :)

  • Mac

    Hi Stanley!

    Bride: May 14, 1985
    Groom: January 28, 1979

    Is it ok to get married on Nov 12, 2013?

    Thanks!

    • Stanley

      Hi Mac,

      Nov 12, 2013 is an ok day to get married although it is not ideal. My question is, why get married on just an “ok” day when it’s the most important day in your life? :)

  • Janice

    Hi! Is dec 21 or 28, 2013 lucky date for wedding?

    Bride’s birthday is january 14, 1983 (year of the dog or year of the pig)
    Groom’s birthday is march 29, 1984 (year of the rat)

  • Manni Lo

    Hi I was just wondering if I would be able to marry on 12 October 2013 if my dad passed away on 11 October 2012?

    Bride dob 2 September 1982
    Groom dob 18 November 1980

    Thank you

  • Linda

    Hi Stanley,

    My fiance and I are thinking of getting married in 2013 or 2014. Judging from our Date of Birth, can you recommended this year or next year? And can you recommend a good date for us? We would like to get married on a Saturday between July 1, 2013 and Dec 31,2013 or any time in 2014.

    My DOB: 3/1/83
    My Fiance DOB: 10/19/13

    We reside in Orange County, CA, so if you have a feng shui master in Orange County, CA or Los Angeles, CA you can recommend to help us, please feel free to provide information. Thank you for your help!

    • Stanley

      Hi Linda,

      Judging from both your birthdays ( assuming your fiance was not born on 1913 but a typo :D ), it will be better for both of you if you plan your wedding for 2014 instead of 2013. I am sorry to say that I do not know of any feng shui master in Orange County that I could recommend. If you like, I can help you choose a proper auspicious wedding date for 2014, or even 2013 ( although the wedding date will have to be very auspiciousness ) if you choose to engage our date selection services. :)

      • linda

        Thanks for the response, Stanley!

        Oops, I meant that my fiance was born 10/19/1979. haha! Does that change things?

        (And Stanley, is there any way to remove my last name from my original post? I didn’t realize at the time, that my full name would be made public. Sorry!)

        • Stanley

          Hi Linda,

          Thanks for the update and no it’s still the same advice. :)

          You see, the problem is that your birth year falls on the year of the Pig and in 2013 that’s where the Year Breaker is located. In date selection, people born in the year where the Year Breaker is currently visiting should avoid any major activity like wedding, changing jobs or moving house as it is considered very inauspicious. That why I suggested postponing the wedding or alternatively letting me help you select a very auspicious wedding day to mitigate the negativeness of the Year Breaker.

          By the way, your last name has been removed. :)

  • Janice

    What about dec 23?

    Same information stated above..

    • Stanley

      Hi Janice,

      All 3 days for not good days for getting married, especially Dec 23 & 28. And the groom is born in the year of the dog, in case you are not sure. Also as getting married is one of the most important days in a person’s life, I highly recommend getting a properly selected wedding date to help ensure a happy and blissful marriage together. :)

  • Jas

    Hi Stanley,

    I’m born on 22 Aug 1985 (Ox), my fiancee on 07 March 1982 (Dog).
    Is 09 Nov 13 a good day for our ROM? Thanks!

  • Izzie Nutz

    4-4 is a lucky Chinese day? that’s a joke.

  • Joe

    Hi Stanley!
    I was born in June 19, 1983 and my fiancee was born in June 14, 1986.
    Which date is better for our ROM date? January 11, 2014 or January 26, 2014?
    Thank you!

  • EJ

    we are planning to get married this year.
    groom August 15, 1986
    bride September 12, 1986

    What would be the best date for this year to get married?I would appreciate if you can email me your respond.
    Thank you very much.

    • Stanley

      Hi Emily Jean,

      All the generally auspicious dates for 2013 are listed on my site. If you want a personally selected wedding date that is very auspicious chosen according to both you and your fiance’s birthdays, you will have to consider engaging our date selection services. :)

  • meghan

    Hi Stanley!
    I’m the bride to be:January 15th 1983
    Groom to be:August 24th 1985

    Please help! I’m in need of a wedding date! We are looking to get married in ethier may or june of 2013. could you please give me the best date of each of those months for us to marry?

    Thank you!!

    • Stanley

      Hi Megan,

      All the wedding dates as listed for May or June on my site are all generally auspicious BUT 2013 is what is known as a “breaker year” for people born in 1983. This means all major activities are to be avoid and this includes getting married and moving house unless a very auspicious date is selected to mitigate the negative effects. I recommend postponing the wedding if possible to 2014 or you can consider engaging our date selection services to help you choose a personally auspicious wedding date according to both you birth dates. :)

  • beehappy

    Hi there Stanley!
    I hope you can help us choose a wedding date that is best or us. Late june or july 2013 would be great.

    groom: jan 11, 1988
    bride: jan 1, 1989

    Thank you! :)

    • Stanley

      Hi Beehappy,

      This year is a Tai Sui year for the bride (born year of the Snake) so it is not a good year for her to get married as Tai Sui years are considered inauspicious for all major activities like marriage or moving house unless a very auspicious date is selected to mitigate the negative effects. I recommend postponing the wedding if possible to 2014 (which is a better year) or you can consider engaging our date selection services to help you choose a personally auspicious wedding date according to both you birth dates. :)

      • beehappy

        by the way, it will be a civil wedding. may I know how much is the rate for the date selection services? hope it can fit our budget. thanks for the response Stanley!

        • Stanley

          hi Beehappy,

          On closer inspection of your birthday, you are born NOT in the year of the Snake but still in the year of the Dragon. Although you are no longer in conflict with the Tai Sui, I still recommend that you choose a very auspicious wedding date to help ensure a happy and blissful marriage together. :)

          By the way, the fee for my date selection service is $88 Singapore dollars which can be paid by Paypal. The button is located just at the upper right of my website.

          • beehappy

            thanks for the info Stanley!
            will that date selection service include the list of auspicious dates for moving to a new home and travelling?
            thanks a bunch and more power!!! :)

          • Stanley

            Hi Beehappy,

            No, the list of auspicious dates will only for your wedding. The others are calculated separately. As for the wedding date selection service, you will be given 3 dates: the most auspicious date in 2013 (but will try to select from June-july period if that is what you want) and 2 other next most auspicious wedding dates (should the first date be not convenient for whatever reasons). Also the most auspicious hours to get married will also be included for maximum prosperity. :)

          • beehappy

            I see. thanks for that sir Stanley :)
            so can a fire rabbit (1-11-1988) and earth dragon (1-11-1988) have their wedding ceremony on july 16, 2013 or july 24,2013 instead?
            thanks for the help & more power! :)

          • Stanley

            Hi Beehappy,

            Either one is a good day. :)

          • beehappy

            thanks for the response!! we will have it on the 12th of july, 2013 around 10am.. would that date be good too? thanks sir Stanley! :)

          • Stanley

            Hi Beehappy,

            Yes, that day will work too.

  • Rez Borja

    hi Stanley!

    Bride: JUne 19, 1982
    Groom: October 19, 1976

    wedding date: october 6, 2013. thanks!

  • cat

    we are both born on the year of the dragon. I’m born on July 31,1976. He’s born July 9, 1976. We are planning to get married on June 18. what do you advise?

    • Stanley

      Hi Catherine,

      June 18th is not a good day for getting married. I suggest re-selecting from my site as all the dates listed are generally auspicious for weddings or you can consider engaging my date selection services to help you choose the most auspicious wedding date according to both your birth dates to help ensure a happy and blissful marriage together. :)

  • Brandy

    Hi Stanley,

    I am a Tiger born January 21 1975, and My Fiance is a Dragon, born April 6 1976.
    we have the wedding option of a dates
    between 15 nov -21 st 2013.
    Or December 13- 22 2013.
    Is there a best option or a few good options in those set of dates.. As far as I could calculate perhaps nov 20, 21 or dec 13, or16??
    I would love a second opinion
    Thank you kindly

  • beehappy

    what do you mean by that? thanks!

  • beehappy

    what about july 15,2013? is that a good date?

  • beehappy

    bride is year of the snake (1-1-1989) . and groom is year of the dragon (1-11-1988)
    hoping for your response Sir Stanley :)

  • Meghan

    Hi there Stanley!
    Thank you for the advice
    Just wanted to make sure to let you know I was told I was born in the year of the “dog” because my birthday was in early January (jan. 15th 1983) his bith date being in the year of the “ox” August 24th 1985 still show no date in 2013 that would work for us?

    • Stanley

      Hi Meghan,

      On closer inspection of your birthday you are indeed born in the year of the Dog. :)

      As mentioned in my earlier reply, you can choose to get married in any of the May-June dates as listed in my site even though they are all basically auspicious dates. But for maximum benefit and personalization, it would be best if those dates are further filtered and refined through both of your birth dates so that you are wed on a day that brings most happiness and bliss in your marriage life.

      You might not know this but wedding date selection was originally designed to benefit and support the bride (so that luck is on her side) more than just to ensure marital happiness because in the old days the bride is married into the groom’s family and she has to not only contend with her husband but the rest of his family too. :)

  • jazz

    Hi stanley,

    I am planning to get married traditionally this 10 nov 2013.

    My dob: 16 may 1984 (bride)
    Spouse: 01 sep 1982 (groom)

    If not a good date, pls recommend the best date this year.

    Thank you.

    • Stanley

      Hi Jazz,

      Although Nov 10 is generally a good day for marriage, it is not a good one for the groom as it happens to clash with his birthday thus making it unsuitable. I suggest choosing another from the list of auspicious wedding dates from my site or engaging our wedding date selection service to help you choose a very auspicious wedding date and time according to both your birth dates.

  • ceegee

    Hi, so grateful that you are here…

    Monkey Bride 11/30/1968
    Monkey Groom 1/11/1969

    Looking for 2 possible dates in snake year? Feb or March, for just us to make it official…
    _or should we rush and officiate in the end of the dragon year? In the next couple weeks…?
    Very confused.

    And then for a family gathering ceremony… Sept, Oct or Nov?
    the second date for A public ceremony with friends and family…

    I am concerned that the snake year is not good for us and want to give us the best chance. We have suffered tremendously in the past year.
    This is time to create the best result. Joy,Love and Prosperity and Eternity or Bust…

    Any help will make it clearer for me…
    ceegee

    • Stanley

      Hi Ceegee,

      Generally it would be better for both of you to get married in the Dragon year than in the Snake year.

      Although getting married on a good day is important to help ensure happiness and bliss for a marriage, but if you REALLY want to have the best results in terms of long term happiness and prosperity (especially if you had it rough last year), I recommend getting your Life Chart read and analyzed. Consider this: wouldn’t it be great to have a map of your life’s up and downs charted so that you can better navigate or avoid the rough patches and be better prepared to take advantage of the lucky breaks when they happen instead of groping around blindly and hope for the best?

  • Lilee

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom: 09/28/80
    Bride: 08/21/82

    In 2013, is Nov 2nd or Nov 9th better for us to get married?

  • jazz

    How do i engage your service?

    • Stanley

      Hi Jazz,

      You can choose to pay the wedding date selection service by credit card through Paypal, which you can do by clicking on the “BUY NOW” button located at the upper right of my website, bank deposit or by cheque. Work will begin once receipt is confirmed. :)

  • hi! i am thinking what date to have a good wedding for us.. we are planning to have our wedding on december of this year. we are both born on the year of rat (1984). is it ok to get married on december 27 / 28 / 0r 29??? please help! thank you so much

  • Sam

    Hi Stanley,

    My fren asked me to help him find some good dates to get married.
    He’s a half indian/chinese & his wife to be is a malay so they asked me for help.
    But the truth is this pure chinese also dunno how this works! Hahaa. So hoped that you can help.
    The groom’s birthdate is 27 Oct 1982 1840hrs.
    And the bride ‘s birthdate is 18 Mar 1983 1211hrs.
    He preferred to have a number 8 in the day or month also can.

    Thanks in advance!

    • Stanley

      Hi Sam,

      Don’t worry, being Chinese doesn’t mean you have to know all Chinese things. :)

      Anyway, you can choose from any of the auspicious wedding dates as listed in my website for your friend but I need to caution you that the bride’s birthday is in direct conflict with the Tai Sui this year so it is a good idea to have their wedding date properly selected based strictly according to both their birth dates to help ensure long term happiness and bliss. Just my advice.

  • zebra

    Hi. Bride is year of the rooster (12-18-69) and groom is a rat (1-24-72). Is dec. 4, 2013 a good wedding date? Hoping for your kind response! Thanks!

    • Stanley

      Hi Zebra,

      Dec 4 is generally a good date for getting married but I have to let you know that the groom is actually not born in the year of the Rat but in the year of the Pig. This means that this is not a good year for him to be married as the Pig is in direct conflict with the Grand Duke in 2013 and that means 2013 will be very challenging for him. If he is to get married, it will be very good for him (and his wife) if he does it on a properly selected wedding date that is personally auspicious and is based on both their birth dates.

  • jazz

    Noted. How much does it cost and how does it work? Do i have to meet u personally?

    • Stanley

      Hi Jazz,

      The fee for the wedding date selection service is S$88 and I will need the birth date, time and country of birth of both the bride and groom. After which you will be emailed 3 wedding dates plus accompanying hours that are carefully selected accordingly to suit the birth dates provided in terms of personal luckiness, auspiciousness and long term happiness in your marriage life. You do not need to meet me personally unless you decide to do the compatibility analysis. By the way, lead time for delivery of the wedding date selection is 1 to 3 days. :)

  • JP

    Hi Stanley,

    Based on the information below, are you able to tell me if there are auspicious wedding date in the 1Q 2014? I have been advised by others that we can only get married from May 2014 onwards, so i would like to seek your advice.

    Groom: November 1981 (Rooster)
    Groom’s Dad: (Ox)
    Groom’s Mum: (Snake)

    Bride: May 1984 (Rat)
    Bride’s Dad: (Snake)
    Bride’s Mum: (Rat)

    Thank you very much in advance!

    • Stanley

      Hi JP,

      First of all there are always auspicious dates no matter which period we are looking at. The question is the quality of the auspiciousness. Just by considering only the bride’s and the groom’s birth dates, 2014 is already not an ideal year for marriage for the bride as her birth year will be in direct conflict with the Tai Sui in that year. Very inauspicious. I can’t see why you were given that advice.

      Conversely, 2013 will be a much better year if you intend to wear the white dress happily. :)

  • Veronica

    Hi Stanley

    Is May/June a good month to get married? My Birth date is August 7, 1981(12.43am) and the Groom is September 9, 1982(2.02am)..

    Duo Xie :)

  • mae

    Hi! Bride’s bday 09-15-1984 and the groom is 03-02-1984. Wedding date is feb. 23, 2013

  • Genevieve

    hi Stanley, me and my fiancé intend on ROM on either 9th Dec 2013 or 23rd April 2014 do you think it’s a good date?

    My fiancé dob is 02/06/1987 and mine is 19/07/1990. Look forward for your reply :)Nthanks

  • jessa

    hi!
    we are planning to get married this december 2013 but we still dont have an exact day for the wedding,mine is nov. 4 1986 then him is oct.10,1986

  • raviasha

    hi my date of birth is may 18 1976 and her is 1984 may 20 do we have any good date in feb

  • Rafana

    Aloha – might you tell us which of the listed dates in March and April might be most auspicious for a Monkey born 10-24-44 and a Snake born 7-8-53? Mahalo nui for your response!

    • Stanley

      Aloha Rafana,

      Any of the auspicious dates listed are all generally usable but I recommend getting a properly and carefully selected personal wedding date because the Snake-born person is in direct conflict with the Grand Duke Jupiter (also known as the Tai Sui) this year so it is very inauspicious for him or her to hold any major event like marriage or moving into a new house unless the date the event is planned is very lucky for that person. The same actually goes for the Monkey-born person but to a lesser degree.

  • KM

    Groom: 10/06/86
    Bride: 13/09/89

    In 2013, is Mar 03 a good date for us?

    • Stanley

      Hi KM,

      March 3rd 2013 is not a good day for getting married plus this year is the bride’s Year Breaker. This means it is not a good year for the bride to get married. I recommend postponing the wedding to next year which will be better for both of you or consider engaging our wedding date selection service to help you choose the most auspicious wedding date to negate the inauspiciousness and attract happiness and good fortune.

  • Diane

    Does it matter if we do not know the time of birth to get the best date for marriage?

    • Stanley

      Hi Diane,

      If time of birth is not known I can only ensure about 80% accuracy in selecting the best of the best wedding date although the final result will still be very good.

  • qihui

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom: 3/7/1984
    Bride: 29/4/1986

    Is it ok to get married on 6/8/25/28 dec 2013? Thanks!

  • anne

    hi stanley, were planning to get married on 11/21/2013. is it an auspicious date for us?

    brides birthday-04/13/1984
    grooms birthday-01/25/1984

    please help us to decide.
    thanks

  • Yen

    Hi stanley! Please please help me and my fiance with our wedding date. We are palnning to get married on december 8, 2013. He was born on january 10, 1981 and my dob is march 17, 1982. Is dec 8, 2013 auspicious for us? What time can you suggest? Thanks so much and more blessings.

  • Valerie

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom: 4/1/1985
    Bride: 12/7/1986

    Is it ok to have our ROM on 8th, 15th or 22nd June 2013? Thank you!

  • anne

    hi stanley

    is january 8, 2014 a auspicious day for us?
    bride birthday-04/13/1984
    groom birthday-01/25/1984

    • Stanley

      Hi Anne,

      I’m sorry to tell you that in this article I had only calculated auspicious wedding dates up to end of 2013. If you are looking for auspicious wedding dates in 2014, you will have to wait till next year for the list or engage me to calculate your auspicious wedding date for you in 2014. :)

  • jessa

    really?then what do u suggest for the best date for us?thank you

  • ceegee

    Monkey Bride 11/30/1968
    Monkey Groom 1/11/1969

    Thank you for the help, you are a Blessing.

    I intend to get your analysis for our family affair later in the year… That is very important to us, nad we will need your guidance to pick a date, you are the best and so very reasonable!

    We may go today january 30 to get the license and either try to go 2/1/13 for our legal ceremony( just he and I)
    As that is one of the last dates auspicious for he and I in dragon year…
    Though I would love to wait until 3/11/13, as I know that is an auspicious day for both he and I individually and overall, just so very concerned about the snake year. Am I making a mountain out of a molehill?
    Please please advise, I am lost as to just go… or have a month to make a day of it, for he and I. A little lost.

    I am very grateful.
    Truly,
    ceegee

    • Stanley

      Hi Ceegee,

      Sorry for the late reply. As both you and your fiance’s birth year are not in conflict with the Snake, I don’t see any big problem nor need for concern. :)

      By the way, instead of March 11, March 12 will be a better date for getting married.

  • Beverly

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride: 16 October 1987
    Groom: 04 September 1983

    Would 25th January 2013 be an auspicious day to get married?

    Thanks in advance!!

  • Raymund

    Mr stanley… Are wedding date is dec 21 2013… Male may 24 1985
    Female 1 1 1985…

    • Stanley

      Hi Raymund,

      Dec 21st is a very bad day for getting married. Please choose another more auspicious wedding date or consider engaging our wedding date selection service to help you choose the most auspicious wedding date to attract happiness and good fortune.

  • Lynn

    Hi Stanley, I would like to know if 1st May 2013 is it good for both (Bride: 12 Nov 1982, Groom: 1 Oct 1982)? Thanks in advance! :)

    • Stanley

      Hi Lynn,

      May 1st is not an ideal day for getting married for both of you. I recommend re-selecting or consider engaging our wedding date selection service to help you choose the most auspicious wedding date.

  • Leen

    Hi Stanley,

    We are planning to get married in may or june and have three dates to choose from: 4th may, 1st june and 29th june 2013.
    Groom is a dragon (1977) and bride is a monkey (1980). Which of these three dates are most auspicious for us?

    And i have another question. I have noticed that some people have the date 29th june as an auspicious date and some don’t. But they still have 4th and 1st june as an auspicious dates. I’m a bit confused. Is it because of a different way of counting?

    Hope you can answer me. Thank you!!

    • Stanley

      Hi Leen,

      Of the 3 dates you’ve given me, ALL are not suitable for marriage.

      Most, if not all, of the auspicious wedding dates provided on the internet are copied from the Chinese Almanac (also know as Tong Shu) or from each other. As to why some people says one date is auspicious while another says otherwise, I can’t really comment as I don’t know what their criteria were. :)

  • Joe

    Hi Stanley

    My birthday is 18th November 1980 and my fiancée is 2 September 1982

    Is sat 21st September @11.30am a good day to get married?

    Many thanks

    Joe

    • Stanley

      Hi Joe,

      No, 21st Sept is not a good day for you to get married because the day clashes with your birth date. Please re-select another more auspicious wedding date or consider engaging our wedding date selection service to help you choose the most auspicious wedding date for happiness and good fortune.

  • Kaye

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride to be: June 23, 1981 (rooster)
    Groom : Jan 2, 1990 (snake)
    Is July 27 2013 a good day for marriage?

    Thanks

  • Sherry

    Hi Stanley,

    I am getting married this May. But my fiance and I am still undecided which the day:
    My DOB: April 17, 1985
    Groom: November 14, 1973

    We are thinking of May 24, 25, 26 or 28 (As per the other website’s advice). We are also considering first week of June.

    I would appreciate your advice.

    Thank you.

  • Ivy

    Hi Stanley! Groom: June 11, 1981 Bride: December 27, 1983. Is February 9, 2014 an auspicious date to get married? Many thanks.

    • Stanley

      Hi Ivy,

      I am sorry to tell you that the free auspicious wedding dates are only up to Dec 2013. For auspicious dates in 2014 or further you will need to engage our wedding date selection services. Thank you. :)

  • Mei Ng

    Hi Stanley! Would 28 Dec be an auspicious date for my fiancé and I? Bride DOB 26 June 1985, groom DOB 24 August 1985. If not, what date in December would be good for us? Thank you!

  • Rez Borja

    hi Stanley! we are planning to move the date to october 9 instead of october 6, 2013? which do you think is better?

    groom: October 19, 1976
    bride: June 19, 1982

    hoping for your reply. thanks!

  • Chelle917

    hi stanley.. good day! i would greatly appreciate your reply =)
    we’re planning to get married on sept 20, 2013. is this auspicious to us?
    bride’s DOB: july 19,1988
    groom’s DOB: july 29, 1970
    thank you!

  • Charlene

    Hi please help, we are planning to get married on 16 March 2013 at 10am my birthday is 15 October 1985 and his is 14 March 1984. Please advise if this is ok.. We are not Chinese but we still believe that having a good dates for marriage can help both couples prosper through out their relationship as husband and wife.. help help help please thanks

  • Rez Borja

    thank you very much Stanley!

  • XYZ

    Hi, we are planning to hold our ROM and wedding dinner on 20 April 2013.

    Can you advise if this is a good day for us?

    Groom DOB: 28 April 1987
    Bride DOB: 25 December 1988

    Thanks!

  • Rio

    Hi! What would be the auspicious wedding date for me and my fiance: My birth date is July 9, 1977 and his birth date is April 4, 1980. Thanks a lot!

  • Chris

    Hi there,
    Thank you for posting all these dates online! We wanted to have our wedding on June 1, 2013, but we may have to hold it on June 2nd instead. Can you leave me a little note to let me know if this is a good idea?
    DOB bride: Mar-3-82 and DOB groom: Aug-11-81
    Thanks so much for your time! :-)

    • Stanley

      Hi Chris,

      Whoever told you that probably don’t like you very much as June 2nd is also known as a Year Breaker day which is generally very bad luck for weddings. My advice is to stick with June 1st.

      • Chris

        Thanks for your reply! Sorry, I made a mistake on the birthdate (typo) it was supposed to be Mar-30-82 for the bride (and not March 3) Don’t know if it makes a difference? Also, would May 25th be better for us? (I got a suggestion for that one instead) As always, I appreciate your response. :-)

        • Stanley

          Hi Chris,

          Luckily, not much. Now May 25th, although is a generally good day for marriage, is not suitable for yours. Particularly for the groom as the date is in conflict with his birth year. But seriously if you really want to get married on a very auspicious wedding day, I recommend engaging our date selection service and get a professionally chosen date. Save yourself from worrying and guesswork. :)

  • Vivian

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom BOD: 13 Oct 1988
    Bride BOD: 27 Feb 1987

    Tentative wedding dates: 11 Nov 2013 and 28 Dec 2013

    Appreciate your guidance, many thanks!

  • vzai

    Hi Stanley,

    1)I was told ROM is considered to be the formality, in comparison to ‘Guo Da Li’ and the ‘gatecrash’ ceremonies.

    Possible to clarify the difference and the need of auspicious dates for these ceremonies?

    2) The generic dates you provide differ from the auspicious dates in ‘Tong shu/sheng’
    Just wondering how are your dates derived.

    Thanks for clarifying !

    Vzai

    • Stanley

      Hi Vzai,

      1) The only important auspicious wedding date is the day both of you formally become husband and wife, which is the ROM day. The other aspects of “guo da li”, “jing cha”, “receive the bride”, “gatecrash”, etc are secondary as some people don’t even practice these events but for the sake of order and formality, auspicious dates are chosen for them.

      2) You will notice that my dates are not much different but are less in number in comparison to the Tong Shu/Sheng as I am a bit more particular on the quality of the dates, even if they are free and generic. :)

  • Pamela

    Hi, my partner and I are planning to get married in the next month or so. We have been together for 11 year and it is both of our second marriages. We are planning something very small and intimate around 20 people, but would like your suggestion of an auspicious date for our marriage/wedding. My birthday is 3/8/1953, and his is 1/23/1959.

    Thank you,

    Pamela

    • Stanley

      Hi Pamela,

      You can select from any of the generally auspicious wedding dates as listed on my site but this year is what is known as a Breaker Year for your partner. What this means is that he is to avoid getting personally involved in any major activities like a wedding or moving into a new house unless a personally auspicious date is chosen to counter the potential bad luck.

  • bonzai

    were planning to get married on nov. 12, 2013.. is this auspicious to us? thanks!

    bride – nov. 21, 1983 pig
    groom – dec. 14, 1981 rooster

    • Stanley

      Hi bonzai,

      Nov 12 is an average date and I recommend choosing a personalized auspicious wedding date, for the bride’s sake as this is her Breaker Year thus it is not suitable for her to be involved in any major activities unless it is done on a personally auspicious day. Kindly reconsider.

  • Clarbie

    Hi Stanley!
    Can you advise me and my HTB on a solminization date please? My D.O.B is 14 September 1990 while his D.O.B is 28 December 1990.
    We are hoping to get married before May, Preferably April. :) Thank you so much!

  • Francine

    Hi,
    The grooms birthday is on may 31 1987
    Brides birthday is in june 13 1990

    Tentative dates
    Feb 14, 19, 20, 21, 23

    Thank you!

  • Annie

    Hi,

    Would you please advise us on a good wedding date and time for October 2013?

    Bride August 1, 1980
    Groom July 24, 1981

    Thank you!

  • CRISELDA

    hi! can you give me auspicious date for our marriage? bride is 9-21-83
    groom 9-30-78 thank u

    • Stanley

      Hi Criseida,

      Yes, they are all already listed on my blog but I recommend choosing a personalized auspicious wedding date, for the bride’s sake as this is her Breaker Year thus it is not suitable for her to be involved in any major activities unless it is done on a personally auspicious day. :)

  • Claire

    Hi Stanley,

    My fiance is Indian and I’m Chinese.
    His DOB is 16/12/1981 (rooster), mine is 1/5/1986 (tiger).
    We’re intending to wed in 4Q2013 or 1H2014.

    What is a good date for us?

    • Stanley

      Hi Claire,

      Selecting auspicious wedding dates in 2014 is beyond the scope of this free service and is a billable activity. Would you still like us to looking into it? :)

  • Diane

    Hi, We have already done the ROM. We wish to do the ceremony and reception on Dec. 4th, 2013. Bride’s DOB (June 29/74), Groom’s DOB (Oct 25/70). Is getting an auspicous date important at this point?

    • Stanley

      Hi Diane,

      Since you have already done the ROM, although not terribly important, getting an auspicious date for the ceremony and reception is still a good idea. :)

  • Irvine

    My wife is Malay and I’m Chinese.
    Her DOB is 30/04/1986 (Tiger) and mine is 12/10/1985 (Ox).
    We had already signed our ROM last 2 year 14th Feb 2011.
    And we are intending to do our wedding banquet dinner on 12th Oct 2013.
    Is it a good date for us?

  • Binky Masarate

    Is below date favorable for me and my husband to have church wedding:

    Nov 12, 2013

    Husband’s bday – April 15, 1975
    My bday – Oct 26, 1973

    Thank you.

  • serena liew

    Hi stanley, any good date this/next year for ROM and wedding?
    Bride’s DOB (20 aug 1985), Groom’s DOB (15 jan 1984)

  • rda

    hi, my dob is 28-10-77 and the groom’s dob is 17-05-79 and i’m looking into dates in march, april or may only fridays and saturdays. could you please advise on a date and which of the three months is best.
    thanks.

  • Gaya

    Hi Stan! I am born in 24-6-81 my partner is 3-10-82 intending to get married on the 3rd December – is it a gd time?

  • Virai

    Hi Stanley :)

    We’ll get married in June 29th. Will it be a good wedding day for us?
    Groom June 25th, 1985 (ox)
    Bride April 5th, 1985 (ox)

    Thank you in advance ^^

  • aman deep panesar

    hi Stanley! we are planning to wedding?
    which do you think are better dates for marriage?

    groom: Sep 14, 1984
    bride: Aug 31, 1988

    Waiting for your reply.

    Thanks!
    Aman

  • tjin

    Hi Stanley,

    My fiance’s birthday’s 21st July 1983 and mine’s 15th October 1981.

    We’re planning to get married on 20th September 2013.

    Would that be good? Thanks for your help :)

  • gie

    hi i would like to ask which of the folowing dates is ideal for our wedding date for 2013:

    May – 4, 10, 26
    June 1

    Rooster groom: August 30, 1981
    Rooster bride: May 26, 1981

    thank you very much

    • Stanley

      Hi gie,

      I can’t comment on whether it is “ideal” or not as I have not closely analyzed your birth dates, but I would say June 1 is the best choice from all the dates you provided. :)

  • aki

    Hi Stanley!

    Groom: April 26, 1977
    Bride: Sept. 01, 1990

    Is it ok to get married on May 24, 2013? Thanks

  • Ces

    My fiancee DOB iis sept 18 1979 and my Dob is august 25 1979 what is the good date for march 2013 thank you

  • Jose

    Hi stanley, id like to know what date are auspiciuos to get married this march
    Groom dob oct 29 1986
    Bride dob may 14 1986

    Thanks

  • Clarence

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom: 03-Nov-1980
    Bride: 16-Feb-1979

    The above are our dob and we are planning to hold our customary wedding on 03-Nov-2013.
    Is the date ok? Does it matter as we’ve ROM in 2010?

    • Stanley

      Hi Clarence,

      Since you’ve already ROMed in 2010, your customary wedding is of secondary importance but Nov 3rd is still not a good day for such events, I suggest choosing another day.

  • Jasmine

    Hi, I would greatly appreciate some advice.
    I’d like to have my wedding around September/ early October 2013. I am born in 1982 (dog) and my partner is born in 1973 (ox).
    Is 14th Sept a good date for us? How about 28th Sept? or Oct 5th? We can only choose Saturdays. 7th and 21st Sept seem to be fully booked now.
    Could you please let us know anyway in the order of which dates are most auspicious, and we can put in the request – at least if the other couples shift/ cancel their dates we know which dates we should go for.

    Thanks!

    • Jasmine

      oh yes, my birthday is 26th Sept 1982, and my partner’s is 02 December 1973.

      Thanks!

    • Stanley

      Hi Jasmine,

      Of all the dates you provided, strictly speaking? None of them are auspicious for getting married in but if those are your only choices then I suggest choosing Oct 5th. However, reading your comment gave me the impression that you are serious in getting married on an auspicious day and rightly so. Since this is one of the most important event in one’s life it makes sense to get the best. My suggesstion is to expand your choices and not limit yourself to just Sept/early Oct. Or better yet, save yourself the headache and worry by engaging our wedding date selection service and let us select the best and most auspicious wedding date for you. For more details please email info@tenki.sg. Thank you. :)

  • Annie

    Hi – I was told that our years do not match. I am a Dog (20-02-82) and he’s a Monkey (02-03-80). We’ve been together about 4 years now and we don’t have any help from our family in selecting a good date for ROM. Do you suggest we get married during this Snake year or wait until next year for the Horse?

    Thank you!

    • Stanley

      Hi Annie,

      Do you now on what basis were you told that your years “do not match”? Anyway, you can choose to marry in the Snake year or Horse year but if you are really serious about this then I suggest wait till next year. :)

  • ikkoku

    Hello!
    I would like to choose 8th Sept for my ROM/wedding, is it ok?
    Me is born on 01-01-1983(dog)
    My boyfriend is on 21-05-1981(rooster)

    Thank you in advance!

  • Michelle

    Hi Stanley,

    Could you please advise the best wedding date for December 2013? My date of birth is 09-Sept-1983 and groom’s date of birth is 23-Dec-1983. I hope you can help me on this. Thank you.

    • Stanley

      Hi Michelle,

      You can choose from any of the auspicious wedding dates as listed on my site but if you seriously really want the best and luckiest wedding date then you will have to engage our wedding date selection services. Kindly email info@tenki.sg for details. Thanks. :)

  • Rocky

    Hi Stanley,
    My fiance’s DOB is on Sep 11th,1987 and mine is on Nov 8th, 1985. We are having our ceremony on June 1st 2013. Will this day be an auspicious day or hour? Please advise! Thanks!

  • sally

    my DOB is feb 14, 1985, my H2B’s DOB is on oct 24, 1984. our wedding is on dec. 28, 2013, is that a good date for us? thanks! =) – sally

  • janna

    Hi there! We are both sheep would like to be married in july or December whay daus would be best?

    • Stanley

      Hi Janna,

      You can choose from any of the auspicious wedding dates as listed on my site but if you seriously really want the best and luckiest wedding date then you will have to engage our wedding date selection services. Kindly email info@tenki.sg for details. Thanks. :)

  • Pui Ni

    Hi Stanley, I wanted to know which would be a better date to get marry 4/6/13 or 4/16/13. Bride is a tiger 10/14/1986 and groom is a dragon 12/2/1988. Thank you.

  • lilly

    Please advise for best wedding dates for
    Female Snake – 8/17/53
    Male Dragon – 2/19/52

    Thank you So so much!

    • Stanley

      Hi Lilly,

      You can choose from any of the auspicious wedding dates as listed on my site but if you seriously really want the best and luckiest wedding date then you will have to engage our wedding date selection services. Kindly email info@tenki.sg for details. Thanks. :)

  • NORA

    Hi!!
    My fiance is a rooster april 8, 1981 and I am a ox dec 27, 1985. We are planning on signing the papers sometime in march (1,8,15) which of these do you think is best?? Thanks for your input! -Nora

    • Stanley

      Hi Nora,

      I am sorry to tell that all the dates you provided are not good for weddings. Please choose an auspicious wedding date from my list or better yet, save yourself the headache and worry by engaging our wedding date selection service and let us select the best and most auspicious wedding date for you. For more details please email info@tenki.sg. Thanks. :)

  • David

    Hello Stanley,

    We would like to get our ROM and get married on 08/08/2013. Will that be a date suitable for us? I am a Monkey (02/03/1980) and she is a Dog (20/02/1982). Thank you!

    • Stanley

      Hi David,

      Yes you can get married on that day but it is not an ideal date.

      • David

        Stanley – can you explain why is it not ideal? We read some books and were told by other people that the year of the snake would be a suitable year for marriage for people born the year of the dog because of 红鸾星 (red heavenly bird?)

        • Stanley

          Hi David,

          Yes, this year the 红鸾星 (red heavenly bird), among other auspicious stars, is in the life of people born in the year of the Dog but that is just only one tiny aspect of the equation. To get the ideal wedding date, one has to take into account multiple aspects of the wedding date in question from the perspective of both the birthdate and time of the bride and groom. That is why most people rather pay me to take away their headaches and uncertainties. :)

  • DHSC

    Hi Stanley

    Pls help to advise if 1 June 2013 is an ideal date for both of us to get married.

    Bride: 5 Dec 1983 (Boar)
    Groom: 5 Dec 1984 (Rat)
    Date of wedding: 1 June 2013 @9.30am

    Thank you.

  • Lilly

    Please advise on 2013 wedding date:

    Bride – 8/17/53 – Water Snake
    Groom – 2/19/52 – Dragon

    Thank you

  • Asher_lizzie

    Hi there!!
    My fiance and i are planning to get married this year but we dont have a date yet.. Can you please help us choose the best date for our marriage.

    Groom’s DOB 26/01/1986
    Bride’s DOB 20/10/1982

    Thanks a lot!!!

    • Stanley

      Hi Asher,

      You can choose from any of the auspicious wedding dates as listed on my site but if you seriously really want the luckiest and best date in 2013 then you will have to engage our wedding date selection services. Kindly email info@tenki.sg for details. Thank you. :)

  • SunflowerLover

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom: 25-07-1979 (Goat)
    Bride: 21-03-1982 (Dog)

    We are planning to get married on 28-12-2013, 29-12-2013 or 1-03-2014. Are these dates ideal for us?
    Thanks in advance!

  • Snoozy

    Hi,

    Please advise if 5th Jan 2014 ( year of snake ) is an ideal date for wedding.

    Bride: 15th nov 1986
    Groom: 21 oct 1985

    Thanks

  • CherlynChan

    Hi Stanley,

    Any good date in Dec for us? :)

    Groom – 12 Sept 1988
    Bride – 23 Nov 1989

    Thank you!

    • Stanley

      Hi CherlynChan,

      You can choose from any of the auspicious weding dates as listed on my site but for the best and most auspicious wedding date based according to both you and your fiance’s birth dates, I recommend engaging our date selection service. Kindly email info@tenki.sg for details. Thank you. :)

  • Carmen

    Hi Stanley,

    We will be getting married on the 29th June. Will it be a good day for us?
    Groom: March 18, 1981(rooster)
    Bride: Sept 16, 1985 (ox)

  • Ying

    Bride 25/10/1988 and Groom 25/05/1980. Are 22 May and 28 May 2013 good days for us? Thank you.

  • Jennifer

    Hi Stanley

    Please advise if 5 October 2013 is an ideal date for us to get married.

    Groom: 26 April 1983 (Pig)
    Bride: 3 October 1991(Goat)
    Date of Wedding: 5 October 2013

    Thank you.

  • SH

    Hi Stanley,

    I read your auspicious wedding dates with interest. I’m planning to have my solemnization and ceremony on 29 March 2014. Would that be a good day for marriage?

    Bride: 13 Sept 1983 – Boar
    Groom: 3 May 1983 – Boar
    Date: 29 March 2014, 4 pm

    Your guidance would be most appreciated!

    • Stanley

      Hi SH,

      For selection of wedding dates in 2014, it is a payable service. Kindly email info@tenki.sg for detials if you would liek to know more. Thank you. :)

      By the way, 29 March 2014 is not a good day for getting married.

  • hello,
    we choose May 25, is it right for us?
    he was born on january 25, 1984 and i was born on november 11, 1982
    are we compatible with each other?
    is it a good date?
    pls.let me know

    • Stanley

      Hi Michelle,

      May 25 is a good day for you. As to whether you are compatible to each other, that is a separate item. We call it the Compatibility Analysis Report. Kindly email info@tenki.sg for details if you would like to know more. Thank you. :)

  • Bridget

    Hi Stanley,

    I hope you are having a good day :-)

    Bride – 5/10/62
    Groom 12/10/74

    As you can see we are both Libra Tigers :-D

    We would like to get married on a Saturday from the middle of October until early 2014 (excluding 9th and 10th of November) in Australia.

    Any particular dates or shall I just pick one from your list?

    Thank you!

    • Stanley

      Hi Bridget,

      Generally you can choose from any of the auspicious wedding dates as listed on my site but if you really want the luckiest and best wedding date all the way into 2014, then you will have to engage our wedding date selection services. Kindly email info@tenki.sg for details. Thank you. :)

  • Jessica

    Please we need your advice.. Well be getting married on May 18, 2013

    My Bday is April 17,1987 ( rabbit )
    while my Groom Bday is November 1, 1983 ( pig )

    • Stanley

      Hi Jessica,

      May 18th is an average date for a wedding but a very auspicious one will go a long way in improving the groom luck in 2013. :)

  • Vanessa

    Hi
    Bride bday is 5/29/79
    Groom is 2/13/78

    We are open to any date. What is the luckiest date in 2013?

    Thanks!

    • Stanley

      Hi Vanessa,

      You can choose from any of the auspicious wedding dates as listed on my site but if you seriously really want the luckiest date in 2013 then you will have to engage our wedding date selection services. Kindly email info@tenki.sg for details. :)

  • cha

    bride: 10/14/82
    groom: 10/30/77

    is dec 8 a good day for our wedding? tnx

  • kuddles

    hi stanley!

    please advise if december 11th 2013 will be a good wedding date!

    bride – 15 sep 1988 (dragon)
    groom – 16 oct 1985 (ox)

    thanks!

    • Stanley

      Hi Kuddles,

      Dec 11th 2013 is a very bad day for getting married. Please choose another or you can save yourself the headache and stress on worrying about which day is most auspicious by engaging our wedding date selection services. :)

  • Bianca

    Hello Stanley
    Bride 8/02/1984
    Groom 02/15/1981

    Dates: 11/30/13 ok? Or 11/16/30 better? I heard year of the snake is widow year does this mean its not a good year to be married?
    Thank you in advance

  • Suja

    Any auspicious wedding dates in nov & dec 2013
    Bride 10/8/1980 – monkey
    Groom 30/8/1977 – snake

  • fortune2luck

    Hi our birth date is January 6 1988 and April 4 1989. Our birth year is Year of the Earth Snake and Fire rabbit. I would like to ask if what are the lucky dates for our wedding. We are planning to get married this 2013 maybe last quarter of the year. Thank u so much!

  • Verlin

    Hi Stanley!
    Is December 28, 2013 good wedding date for us?

    bride- March 31 ,1984
    Groom- January 08, 1984

    Thank you!

  • Tiger

    Hi,

    I wanted to know if July 6,July 12, July 17 2013 are a good dates to get married.

    Bride (10/8/1978) (Horse)
    Groom (1/23/1975) (Tiger)

    Thanks

  • Ding Ding

    Hi Stanley,

    We are planning to get married next year 2014.
    I am born in 19 April 2984 (Rat)
    and my Husband to be is 11 November 1981 (Roaster)

    Just realise that there will be a clash for me, the Rat to get married in Horse year in 2014. I am just wondering, is there any other alternative as in to choose very auspicious date in 2014 if we want to get married still in 2014?

    Or if we have ROM before CNY 2014, let say in January 2014, and we will have customary wedding (The Chinese)later in 3rd Quarter 2014, will that be okay?

    Thank you,
    DingDing

    • Stanley

      Hi Ding Ding,

      Selection of auspicious wedding dates in 2014 is a payable service. It is even more important to secure a very auspicious date if you decide to get married in 2014 particulally if you are born in the Rat year but if you ROM before 4th Feb 2014, it is technically still the year of the Snake so it would be better for you. Please email info@tenki.sg for more details. Thank you. :)

  • Mary Ann Cabuang

    Hi my fiance’s Lee Lawrence and I were planning to get married next year, 2014 what are the auspicious date for the month of MAY 2014, here are some info for us,. Im Mary Ann M. Cabuang born on Nov. 5 1984 and my partner Lee Lawrence Joseph G. Pajarillo was born on Aug. 10, 1982.. What are the auspicious weekend date for us on the month of May? I’m just trying to create a good feng shui for my wedding. Please help! Thank you!

  • rda

    how about 29 March??

    rda
    February 14, 2013 at 4:59 am · Reply
    hi, my dob is 28-10-77 and the groom’s dob is 17-05-79 and i’m looking into dates in march, april or may only fridays and saturdays. could you please advise on a date and which of the three months is best.
    thanks.

    Stanley
    February 23, 2013 at 5:35 pm · Reply
    Hi rda,

    If you really want the answer to your question I will have to charge you $88 SGD.

  • Charles

    Hi Stanley,

    We are planning to get married in December, choosing between Dec. 14 and Dec. 28, 2013. Which is a better day for us?

    Groom: June 2, 1966 4:30pm
    Bride: June 20, 1972 9:00am

    Thank you so much!

  • esi hondo

    hi! we are planning to get married on december 30,2013 at 4:30 pm. is this a good wedding day for us?

    Bride- September 19, 1981
    Groom- June18, 1982

    Thanks!

    • Stanley

      Hi esi hondo,

      Dec 30 is not a good day for getting married.

    • esi

      how sad. How about january 3, 2014? can you suggest a good wedding day for us for december?

      Thank you so much!

      • Stanley

        Hi Esi,

        You can choose from any of the generally auspicious dates already posted on my site for Dec or you may want to choose to use our Auspicious Wedding Date Selection service. We have 2 wedding date selection packages: Deluxe and Regular. Please email info@tenki.sg for more details. Thank you. :)

  • Maria

    Hi! We wish to seek an auspicious date for our wedding in 2013 on a Saturday October 12 or 19, 2013 or Nov. 2 or 9, 2013

    Groom: Dec. 15, 1977 (Snake)
    Bride: Aug. 11, 1982 (Dog)

    This a good year and dates for us?

    I hope you can help us..thank you so much

    • Stanley

      Hi Maria,

      2013 ia good for the bride but not so ideal for the groom. As for dates you can use either Nov 9 or Oct 19. But if you want the best and luckiest wedding date for both, then I recommend using our Auspicious Wedding Date Selection service. :)

  • Angel

    Hi Stanley,

    May I check if 21 Dec 2013 is a good date to get married (both ROM & Customary)?
    Groom DOB: 11 Dec 1986
    Bride DOB: 30 Oct 1986
    Thank you!

  • Maggie

    Dear Stanley,

    Hope all is good on your side.

    Me and fiance are signing Marriage Certificate in front of civil celebrant on Saturday, the 6th of April 2013. Is 10:30 AM a GOOD time to sign??
    Groom to-be : Sept, 22 1982 09:00AM
    Bride to-be: April, 18 1985 07:00AM

    Lastly, may i know which date is good to have our holy matrimony and reception dinner, Thursday 3rd Oct 2013 or Sunday 6th Oct 2013??

    Bunch of thanks! :)

  • Angel Pua

    Hi Stanley,

    My fiance and I are planning to get married on 20 or 21 Dec 2013, do you think which is good?

    Groom DOB: 11 Dec 1986
    Bride DOB: 30 Oct 1986

    Thank you!!

  • Zhen An

    Hi Stanley!

    From October to December 2013, preferably on a Saturday, what specific date is a good day for our wedding?

    Bride’s Date of Birth: July 24, 1978
    Groom’s Date of Birth: May 31, 1979

    • Stanley

      Hi Zhen An,

      You can choose from any of the generally auspicious dates already posted on my site form Oct to Dec or you may want to choose to use our Auspicious Wedding Date Selection service. We have 2 wedding date selection packages: Deluxe and Regular. Please email info@tenki.sg for more details. Thank you. :)

  • Nicholas

    Hi Stanley,

    May I ask you if 31st May 2013 is a good day to ROM follow by 1st June 2013 for wedding?

    Groom: 4th May 1982
    Bride: 24th July 1979

    Many thanks in advance.

    Nicholas

  • Abriel

    What is the best ROM wedding date for 2013 for a groom who is a Monkey (on the Zodiac) and a bride who is a Rooster (on the Zodiac)?

    I’ve been trying to find this out and I have no idea. Can you please advise and help me out?

    Thank you.

    • Stanley

      Hi Abriel,

      If you are looking for the BEST wedding date then may I suggest using our Auspicious Wedding Date Selection service? We have 2 wedding date selection packages: Deluxe and Regular. If you would like to know more, kindly email info@tenki.sg for details. Alternatively, you can choose from any of the generally auspicious dates already posted on my site. Thank you. :)

      • Abriel

        Is this the $88 service that is usually used for finding wedding dates for 2014? I can’t afford services like that.

        Is there any way for me to find the best wedding date for Feng Shui for 2013 no charge?

        On the Zodiac I am a Monkey and on the Zodiac my fiancee is a Rooster.

        Please help me with this with a suggestion that is not the $88 selection service.

        I really don’t have that kind of money.

        Thank you for your assistance.

        • Stanley

          Hi Abriel,

          I am sorry to hear about your financial difficulties. :(

          I cannot give you the best wedding date (to be fair to those who paid the fee for theirs) but if you will provide the actual birth details of both the bride and the groom, I will help you pick a date that is usable. :)

  • John

    Hi Stanley
    i am born in year of goat 6th July 1979.
    She is rooster, born 6th May 1981.

    We are thinking of getting ourselves registered this year in 2013.
    on a 6th of any months. Which month do you think it’s good this year?
    Aug, oct or november?
    Which do you suggest if we want to do it on the 6th regardless of the timing…
    as not sure if we can get the allocated timing we want for ROM.

    If there is a good time, please let me know what time is good generally?
    Thanks! : )

  • Tamara

    Hello,
    we are plan to married betewen May 11 and June 03 2013,I aqm born Januar 01 1978., and may boyfriend In June 1O 1978!Can You tell us what is aor lacky date?Thank You!

  • Lee

    Hi Stanley,
    I’m getting married on 9th Nov 13 and was hoping if this date is good for:
    Bride – 3rd June 1983
    Groom – 14th Nov 1979
    Thank you for your help :)

  • virgomj

    hello good pm we already had our civil wed and were planning to have our church wed on dec 8 or dec 14

    i was born on sept 20 1973
    my husband boren on nov 23, 1974

  • Zia

    Hi!
    Need your advice please. We are planning to get married on January 8 or 18 or 28, 2014.
    Which will be the best date and time for us?

    Bride DOB: April 21, 1981
    Groom DOB: April 24, 1985

    Thank you!
    Zia

    • Stanley

      Hi Zia,

      For 2014 wedding dates, you can choose from any of the generally auspicious dates on my site when the list comes out next year or you may want to choose to use our Auspicious Wedding Date Selection service. We have 2 wedding date selection packages: Deluxe and Regular. Please email info@tenki.sg for more details. Thank you. :)

  • Anna

    DOB Bride – Jan 13, 1978
    DOB Groom – Jun 21, 1978
    We’re looking at Dec 16, 17, 18 or 19 2013. Any feedback on any of these dates?

    Thanks.

  • angela

    Hi Stanley,

    were planning to get married april 18, 2013 and my DOB is jan. 9, 1980 and my fiance is march 20, 1975. Is this good date for us?

    Option dates are:
    April 18, 2013
    April 19, 2013
    April 20, 2013

    Thank you and Mor Power!

  • We like the date July 8th 2013 at 4pm for our wedding as the moon is increasing and in the sign cancer, although we are up to changing it as we realize there is a lot of things to consider for a auspicious wedding date.

    We are getting married in Grand Haven, Michigan.

    The brides birthday is October 21, 1989
    The grooms birthday is July 29, 1981

    I would be very appreciative if you could help me to determine if July 8th is a good day for us!

    Thank You.

    • Stanley

      Hi Tabitha,

      I am sorry to tell you that July 8th is not good day for getting married. Also I have sent you a reply on your private email. Thanks for your enquiry. :)

  • kelver

    Hi

    When to deliver a good date to Cesarean deliveries in April 2013 (after 15 April onwards)?
    New born would be 2nd kid – daughter.

  • Stella

    Hi Stanley-
    can you tell me if Friday March 22 in southern hemisphere is a good wedding day for us. =)
    Groom- 5 August 1975 (rabbit)
    Bride – 14 July 1978 (horse)

    • Stanley

      Hi Stella,

      Sorry to tell you that Mar 22 is a bad day for getting married.

      • Stella

        Hi Stanley- could you clarify if this answer is because the date does not reflect one already on your website or if our birthdays also play into Mar 22 as a bad day for us getting married. Our ceremony will take place at the wedding registrar office and the date is somewhat flexible-could another day relatively soon serve our commitment better or is Year of the Snake (widow year) best to not hold our wedding? :)

        • Stanley

          Hi Stella,

          Mar 22 was never listed as an auspicious wedding date on the list I posted on my website so I do not understand your statement “because the date does not reflect one already on your website”. But anyway, Mar 22 is not a good day for marriages because it is what is known in Date Selection as a Year Breaker day. On this day all major activities like marriages are avoided. And it is fine to get married in the so-called Widow year. (please read article onthe subject here http://www.pureclassicalfengshui.com/?p=1397)

          • Stella

            Thanks Stanley! I read the article twice before you asked me to. Once I read it again, things started to sink in.

            Our date will be changed to a later time due to many circumstances. Personally, I’m not keen for an April date and but often thought I would marry in May. I read somewhere that many cultures avoid this month. Do you know why this is?
            Our options could be May 8 or 15.

            Unless we avoid May all together-June 1 is the next desireable date. Any thoughts? ;)

          • Stanley

            Hi Stella,

            I don’t know about other cultures but the Chinese tend to avoid April because April is represented by the number 4 and when read in Chinese it sounds exactly like “die” so it is considered inauspicious for happy events like marriages. As for the dates you provided, generally, you can get married in either one of them but then I should tell you we will not know for sure whether these dates are the best till properly analyzed with you and your fiance’s birth dates. :)

  • Babylyn

    Hi Stanley,
    Hi I’m from Philippines and my fiancé is from Canada we are planning to get married this coming June 8, 2013, I would like to know If it is the good date for us. Thank you.
    Groom – Dec. 2, 1969
    Bride – March 17, 1979

  • al

    hi!my DOB is march 01 1984 and my bf is apr 24 1978,is it ok f we will get married this coming june 8 2013?if not,when will be the best month for us?thank u so much in advance.

    more power!

  • aubrey

    Hi Stanley,
    Me and my fiance are planning to wed on December 31, 2014 at 10:00am.. My birth date is June 21, 1987 and his is February 22, 1989..
    Is the date auspicious for us??
    If not, which dates would you prefer??
    Please help..

    • Stanley

      Hi Aubrey,

      I am unable to provide advice on wedding dates in 2014 unless it is a paid consultation. If you like, kindly engage our auspicious Wedding Date Selection services at info@tenki.sg. Thank you. :)

  • Irene

    Hi,

    Sorry, I forgot to include the possible wedding dates. My fiancee’s DOB is 12.09.77 & mine is 12.19.82. We are thinking about the following dates for our wedding:

    6.25.13
    6.29.13
    6.30.13
    9.19.13
    9.21.13
    9.22.13

    Please advise.

    Thank you,

    Irene

  • Abbie

    Hi Stanley,
    I would like to know when is the best date for us to be wed?
    Groom – 16 Jan 1978
    Bride – 02 Jan 1982
    Thank you.

    • Stanley

      Hi Abbie,

      You can pick from any of the generally auspicious wedding dates listed on my site but if you seriously want to know what is your best wedding date, kindly choose either one of the two Auspicious Wedding Date Selection packages located at the upper right corner of the same site. Thank you. :)

  • Pinky

    Hi Stanley,

    I was born in the year of the dog (jan 26, 1983) and my fiance was born in the year of the pig (march 22,1983). Can we get married this year even if it’s a tai sui year for my fiance? Thanks

    • Stanley

      Hi Pinky,

      Actually 2013 is not a Tai Sui year but a Breaker year for your fiance which is comparatively worst (if we can put it thay way). A Tai Sui year is for people born into the year of the Snake. But anyway, to answer your question, yes you can still get married in 2013. We just need to make sure that he gets married in a properly selected and personally auspcious wedding date. :)

  • ron

    hi whats the best date for me and my fiance to get married this october 2013? im a male and my date of birth is october 30 1982, her birthdate was july 7, 1980 a female. thanks.

    • Stanley

      Hi Ron,

      You can choose from any of the October dates as listed as they are all generally auspicious for marrying in. But for the BEST date, kindly choose from either one of the two auspicious wedding date selection packages conveniently located at the upper right corner of my site. Thank you. :)

  • Yan yan

    Hi Stanley,
    My fiancé are planning a December 2013 wedding.
    Bride dob: 1/20/76 (rabbit)
    Groom dob: 4/21/77 (snake)

    We are looking at December 7, 14, 21, or 28. Which are best? Which dates should be avoided?

    Thanks for your advice!

  • glenda

    hi, i was born 22nd feb 1976 834am and my fiancee was born 28th feb 1986 730pm. Could you advise if 3rd August 2013 is a good day for our marriage? Thanks much.

  • Sandra Chang

    I consider to get married this year on Sept 8th or October 19th 2013.

    Groom – 09 April 1974 (Tiger)
    Bride – 13 Dec 1977 ( Snake )

    Please advise if this is a good date for us ?

    Many Thanks.

    • Stanley

      Hi Sandra,

      Generally, either will do but we will not know which is the best until we properly analyze those dates with both your birth dates. For all we know they may be totally unsuitable upon close scrutiny. :)

  • Eva

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom: 31-12-1977 (snake)
    Bride: 28-10-1981 (rooster)

    We are planning to get married on 06-05-2013, 19-05-2013 or 1-06-2013. Which of these dates is best for us?
    Thanks in advance!

    Eva

    • Stanley

      Hi Eva,

      From the dates you provided, June 1st seems to be the better choice but we will not know whether it is the best until we properly analyze the date with both your birth dates. :)

  • Suki

    We have a few dates and need to pick one to marry: Aug 31st, Sept 1st or Sept 22nd 2013. Is this period auspicious for us?
    Bride DOB: 24th May 1977 Groom DOB: 17th December 1973

  • Mar

    Hi Stanley!
    Bride: Feb 5, 1983
    Groom: Oct 9, 1965

    Option dates:
    June 21, 2013
    June 28, 2013
    Sept 6, 2013
    Sept 2o, 2013
    Would either of these be good??? Thanks in advance!

  • Goodday Stanley,
    Bride: December 26,1975
    Groom: May 17, 1954
    We’re planning to get married on the month of September, 2013
    Marriage Tentative date: Sept. 14, 2013.
    Your guidance is greatly appreciated. Thank you.

  • Jane

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride: Nov 1, 1982
    Groom: Aug 10, 1974

    Kindly advise which dates in November 2013 would be suitable for us?

    Thank you very much and have a nice day! :)

  • Glenda

    Hi Stanley, just to check if 4th aug is good for us to marry. Me 22/2/1976 dragon, him 28/02/1986 tiger. Thanks very much!

  • Lex

    Hi Stanley,

    We are hoping for August 29, 2013 wedding.
    Our birth dates are
    June 15, 1974
    December 19, 1974

    Will date we selected work? Many thanks

  • Kim

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride: 10/21/1968
    Groom: 8/18/1970

    Options:
    July 6, 2013
    August 31, 2013
    September 7, 2013

    Can you recommend the best time for us to marry?
    Many thanks!!!

  • hello! my fiancee and I are planning to get married on the 25th of april this year. will this be an auspicious date for us? i’m quite scared having read that this year isn’t a good year to get married.

    bride: March 19, 1984 – rat
    groom: October 8, 1981 – rooster

    Please i need your advice.. thank u so much

    • Stanley

      Hi Richell,

      25th Apr is not an ideal day to get married but it has nothing to do with 2013 being a widow year, assuming that is what you mean by “this year isn’t a good year to get married”.

  • AiKo

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom: Mar 28, 1985
    Bride: Apr 9, 1985

    We are planning to get married on September, October, or November.
    Please advise what date is a good date for us?

    Many Thanks.

    Aiko

  • Brenda

    Hi there,
    My fiance n I r planning to Rom on 20 Sept 2013.

    Bride: 26 July 1986
    groom: 19 Jan 1981

    Is this date auspicious for us to get married? Pls advise. Thanks a lot.

  • Sarah Nila

    Groom: 12 – 28 – 1984

    Bride: 5 – 1 – 1988

    We want to get married in 2016 but I want to know if it’s a good year and if so what month and day? Thank you again :)

  • Heinrich

    Hello Stanley,

    I hope you had a nice weekend! Here are our stats:

    Groom == Dec. 29, 1974
    Bride == Oct. 7, 1974

    Target month == August 2013 :-) We were aiming at August 26, 2013.

    All the best,
    Heinrich

  • linda ann

    hy stanley the bride born 21 april 84 the groom born aug 76 wedding to be held on 17th dec2013 or end november 2013 is it a good day thank you so much

  • Bidisha

    We both are snakes, my birthday is 13th dec 1977 6.55 am and his is 14th july 1977 11.37 am. Is 22nd dec 2013 a good day for marriage?

  • Misha

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride dob: 08-24-1971
    Groom dob: 08-01-1971

    ROM: 12-16-2013

    Is this date okay for us?

    Thanks!

  • Anmario

    Dear Stanley,

    I’m born on 11 Feb 1973 and my bride is born on 05 Oct 1985. Is there any good day for Sept 2013 for marriage?

    Thanks you very much.

  • Jane

    Hi Stanley,

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride: Nov 1, 1982
    Groom: Aug 10, 1974

    May i know if 21st Nov or 24th Nov more suitable for us to get married?

    Thanks and regards,
    Jane

  • Anmario

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom: 11 Feb 1973
    Bride: 05 Oct 1985

    I would like to check whether 26th Sept 2013 is a good date for me to get married?

    Thanks you

  • Brenda

    Hi there,
    My fiance n I r planning to Rom on 20 Sept 2013.

    Bride: 26 July 1986 , 8.47pm
    groom: 19 Jan 1981, 2.08pm

    what are the auspicious timings for us to get married? Pls advise. Thanks a lot.

  • Eliza

    I am born January 2, 1986 and my groom born June 11, 1974. I would like to ask what day of November this year is the best day to wed? we have a date of November 9.. what do you think? thanks a lot.

  • Karla

    Hi Stanley!

    How does the 21st of December look for

    Bride: 18th of July 1989
    Groom: 08th of December 1984.

    Thank you kindly in advance!

    Best to you.

  • lisa hoey

    My fiance’s birthday is 1/29/77, mine is 12/12/76. We are looking at 5/31/14 or 6/7/14 or 6/14/14. Which is the best for us? We need a Saturday wedding. In late May or Early June. thanks

    • Stanley

      Hi Lisa,

      On my site, I only answer general questions that are current (2013) but you may want to consider ordering one of our auspicious wedding date selection packages if you are looking for specific auspicious wedding dates in 2014. Thank you. :)

  • Jo

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride: July 7, 1985
    Groom: Oct 23, 1982

    May i know if it’s suitable for us to get married on either of the auspicious dates you posted? We looking from Sept-Dec.

    Thanks!

    • Stanley

      Hi Jo,

      Yes, you can choose from the auspicious wedings dates I posted on my site as they are all generally auspicious. But if you want a wedding date that is personally auspicious only for both you and your HTB then you’ll need to select from either one of my auspicious wedding date selection packages. Thank you. :)

  • elizabeth

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride: 30 may 1985
    groom: 5 Sep 1985

    We have select 9 Nov and 16 Oct, which date more suit us?

    thanks

  • susan yang

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride: Sept 1, 1964 (lunar July 25)
    Groom: Sept 24, 1963

    Is Aug 31, 2013 lucky date to get marry? What hour is the most auspicious for wedding ceremony to take place.

    Thanks for your advise.

  • Laura

    Hi Stanley,

    bride: aug 25, 1990
    groom: may 22, 1983

    We want to get married in 2013 08 09 but I want to know if it’s a good day ?
    Thank you :)

  • ef_real07

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride: april 25, 1985
    Groom: Sept 9, 1985

    We are planning to get married on Dec 8, 2013. Is this a good date? Thank you

  • alexa

    Hi Stanley,
    bride: 24/11/1980
    groom: 16/09/1978
    our parents are born in the years of tiger, rat, dragon and dog.
    We’re considering either one of these 3 dates: 13 Dec 2013, 20 Jan 2014 or 21 Mar 2014. which will be the best?
    thank you in advance.

    • Stanley

      Hi Alexa,

      I am sorry but on this site I will only answer questions that are current (2013). For questions involving 2014, you may want to consider ordering one of our auspocious wedding dates selection package instead. :)

      By the way, Dec 13 is usable and can be considered.

  • Sarah

    Stanley,
    I am born July 24, 1982 at 12:05pm. My fiancee is October 26, 1976 at 12:02pm. Is September 14, 2013 a good day for us to get married? Thanks!
    -Sarah

  • Lynn Chua

    Hi
    I plan to get married this year.
    My date of birth 22nd oct 1979 while my boyfriend DOB is 1st Apr 1975.

    We plan to do wedding on 26 or 27 Oct

  • Dhang

    Hi stanley,

    May I ask if is these dates is good for our wedding December, 16, 18 or ,26, 28, 2013.

    Bride- October 4, 1984
    Groom – February 18, 1980

    Thanks,

  • Maribel

    Hi,

    I’m older than my boyfriend as i was born in Sept. 7, 1971 and he was in April 18, 1984. Can you suggest us dates to marry anytime this 2013?

    Thanks,
    Maribel

    • Stanley

      Hi Maribel,

      All the wedding dates as listed on my site are generally auspicious and you can choose from any of them if you do not want a professionally chosen date. :)

  • Roger

    Sorry about this being a really long post but I found a website that shows dates and lunar dates. Which of these dates do I go by to find a wedding date good for Feng Shui? Do I go by the regular date or the lunar date?

    January, 2013
    01/03 (Lunar 11/22) Thur. – against Pig
    01/06 (Lunar 11/25) Sun. – against Tiger
    01/08 (Lunar 11/27) Tue. – against Dragon
    01/09 (Lunar 11/28) Wed. – against Snake
    01/13 (Lunar 12/02) Sun. – against Rooster
    01/15 (Lunar 12/04) Tue – against Pig
    01/16 (Lunar 12/05) Wed – against Rat
    01/18 (Lunar 12/07) Fri. – against Tiger
    01/25 (Lunar 12/14) Fri. – against Rooster
    01/27 (Lunar 12/16) Sun. – against Pig
    01/28 (Lunar 12/17) Mon – against Rat
    01/30 (Lunar 12/19) Wed – against Tiger

    February, 2013
    02/06 (Lunar 12/26) Wed. – against Rooster
    02/07 (Lunar 12/27) Thur. – against Dog
    02/10 (Lunar 01/01) Sun. – against Ox
    02/15 (Lunar 01/06) Fri. – against Horse
    02/19 (Lunar 01/10) Tue. – against Dog
    02/22 (Lunar 01/13) Fri. – against Ox
    02/27 (Lunar 02/18) Wed. – against Horse

    March, 2013
    03/02 (Lunar 01/21) Sat. – against Rooster
    03/05 (Lunar 01/24) Tue. – against Rat
    03/06 (Lunar 01/25) Wed. – against Ox
    03/09 (Lunar 01/28) Sat. – against Dragon
    03/11 (Lunar 01/30) Mon. – against Horse
    03/14 (Lunar 02/03) Thur. – against Rooster
    03/17 (Lunar 02/06) Sun. – against Rat
    03/19 (Lunar 02/08) Tue. – against Tiger
    03/21 (Lunar 02/10) Thur. – against Dragon
    03/23 (Lunar 02/12) Sat. – against Horse
    03/24 (Lunar 02/13) Sun. – against Sheep
    03/26 (Lunar 02/15) Tue. – against Rooster
    03/29 (Lunar 02/18) Fri. – against Rat
    03/30 (Lunar 02/19) Sat. – against Ox
    03/31 (Lunar 02/20) Sun. – against Tiger

    April, 2013
    04/06 (Lunar 02/26) Sat. – against Monkey
    04/07 (Lunar 02/27) Sun. – against Rooster
    04/10 (Lunar 03/01) Wed. – against Rat
    04/18 (Lunar 03/09) Thur. – against Monkey
    04/22 (Lunar 03/13) Mon. – against Rat
    04/30 (Lunar 03/21) Tue. – against Monkey

    May, 2013
    05/03 (Lunar 03/24) Fri. – against Pig
    05/04 (Lunar 03/25) Sat. – against Rat
    05/13 (Lunar 04/04) Mon. – against Rooster
    05/14 (Lunar 04/05) Tue. – against Dog
    05/22 (Lunar 04/13) Wed. – against Horse
    05/26 (Lunar 04/17) Sun. – against Dog
    05/28 (Lunar 04/19) Tue. – against Rat
    05/30 (Lunar 04/21) Thur. – against Tiger

    June, 2013
    06/01 (Lunar 04/23) Sat. – against Dragon
    06/03 (Lunar 04/25) Mon. – against Horse
    06/07 (Lunar 04/29) Fri. – against Dog
    06/08 (Lunar 04/30) Sat. – against Pig
    06/10 (Lunar 05/02) Mon. – against Ox
    06/22 (Lunar 05/14) Sat. – against Ox
    06/23 (Lunar 05/15) Sun. – against Tiger
    06/24 (Lunar 05/16) Mon. – against Rabbit
    06/25 (Lunar 05/17) Tue. – against Dragon

    July, 2013
    07/01 (Lunar 05/23) Mon. – against Dod
    07/02 (Lunar 05/24) Tue. – against Pig
    07/04 (Lunar 05/26) Thur. – against Ox
    07/07 (Lunar 05/29) Sun. – against Dragon
    07/11 (Lunar 06/04) Thur. – against Monkey
    07/18 (Lunar 06/11) Thur. – against Rabbit
    07/23 (Lunar 06/16) Tue. – against Monkey
    07/24 (Lunar 06/17) Wed. – against Rooster
    07/26 (Lunar 06/19) Fri. – against Pig
    07/28 (Lunar 06/21) Sun. – against Ox
    07/30 (Lunar 06/23) Tue. – against Rabbit
    07/31 (Lunar 06/24) Wed. – against Dragon

    August, 2013
    08/04 (Lunar 06/28) Sun. – against Monkey
    08/05 (Lunar 06/29) Mon. – against Rooster
    08/06 (Lunar 06/30) Tue. – against Dog
    08/07 (Lunar 07/01) Wed. – against Pig
    08/08 (Lunar 07/02) Thur. – against Rat
    08/09 (Lunar 07/03) Fri. – against Ox
    08/18 (Lunar 07/12) Sun. – against Dog
    08/20 (Lunar 07/14) Tue. – against Rat
    08/26 (Lunar 07/20) Mon. – against Horse
    08/29 (Lunar 07/23) Thur. – against Rooster
    08/31 (Lunar 07/25) Sat. – against Pig

    September, 2013
    09/01 (Lunar 07/26) Sun. – against Rat
    09/03 (Lunar 07/28) Tue. – against Tiger
    09/05 (Lunar 08/01) Thur. – against Dragon
    09/07 (Lunar 08/03) Sat. – against Horse
    09/13 (Lunar 08/09) Fri. – against Rat
    09/15 (Lunar 08/11) Sun. – against Tiger
    09/17 (Lunar 08/13) Tue. – against Dragon
    09/23 (Lunar 08/19) Mon. – against Dog
    09/25 (Lunar 08/21) Wed. – against Rat
    09/27 (Lunar 08/23) Fri. – against Tiger
    09/29 (Lunar 08/25) Sun. – against Dragon

    October, 2013
    10/05 (Lunar 09/01) Sat. – against Dog
    10/06 (Lunar 09/02) Sun. – against Pig
    10/11 (Lunar 09/07) Fri. – against Dragon
    10/18 (Lunar 09/14) Fri. – against Pig
    10/19 (Lunar 09/15) Sat. – against Rat
    10/20 (Lunar 09/16) Sun. – against Ox
    10/21 (Lunar 09/17) Mon. – against Tiger
    10/22 (Lunar 09/18) Tue. – against Ribbit
    10/28 (Lunar 09/24) Mon. – against Rooster
    10/31 (Lunar 09/27) Thur. – against Rat

    November, 2013
    11/02 (Lunar 09/29) Sat. – against Tiger
    11/03 (Lunar 10/01) Sun. – against Rabbit
    11/12 (Lunar 10/10) Tue. – against Rat
    11/18 (Lunar 10/16) Mon. – against Horse
    11/20 (Lunar 10/18) Wed. – against Monkey
    11/21 (Lunar 10/19) Thur. – against Rooster
    11/24 (Lunar 10/22) Sun. – against Rat
    11/27 (Lunar 10/25) Wed. – against Rabbit
    11/28 (Lunar 10/26) Thur. – against Dragon
    11/30 (Lunar 10/28) Sat. – against Horse

    December, 2013
    12/03 (Lunar 11/01) Tue. – against Rooster
    12/04 (Lunar 11/02) Wed. – against Dog
    12/13 (Lunar 11/11) Fri. – against Sheep
    12/25 (Lunar 11/23) Wed. – against Sheep
    12/29 (Lunar 11/27) Sun. – against Pig

    This came from Lucky Wedding Date for 2013

    • Stanley

      Hi Roger,

      First of all I need to clarify with you the difference between feng shui and date selection. The first deals primarily with the energies of your property and immediate environments because it is locational while the latter deals primarily with timing. So effectively having a good wedding date is for the personal prosperity and happiness of you and your wife and will not affect your feng shui directly. As for your other question, technically Chinese auspicious wedding date selection is based on the lunar calendar but as you can see the list you provided has been converted to gregorian or normal calendar too. :)

  • Joseph So

    Hi Stanley,

    I browsed into your website and it looks very promising and informative. Me and my fiance are planning to get married this year and was wondering if you can give us a kind recommendation of what would be the best possible date that will fall on a weekend Fri/Sat or Sun for us to get married on the month of December? Also, if it’s more favorable to have it in the morning or afternoon? We’re looking at December 8, 12 or 22.

    Bride : June 21, 1987
    Groom : July 12, 1984

    Thanks and More Power!

  • R4A

    Hi Stanley, I would like to ask on what is the auspicious date for me and my fiance to get married?

    Groom: July 13, 1968 Born: 7AM
    Bride: November 2, 1988 Born: 1:05PM

    is it auspicious to get married by Sept. 25, 2013 at 3-5pm or 7am-9am? thanks

    • Stanley

      Hi R4A,

      Sept 25th is not a good date for you to get married.

      • R4A

        Hi Stanley, thanks for responding,now i know sept 25 is against dragon. what about September 18? we actually prefers to get married on a Wednesday.if sept 11 there is San Niang.Is there any recommendations? thanks

        • Stanley

          Hi R4A,

          Why do you say Sept 25th is against Dragon? Anyway, Sept 18 is a no-go either. Sept 11th, on the other hand, is more suitable. As for the San Niang Affliction, don’t worry about it. It’s based on an old Chinese legend and has little to do with actual Chinese Date Selection. Imagine having to avoid every 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd and 27th of every single lunar month if you are looking for an auspicious wedding date. Seriously limits your choices doesn’t it? Anyhoo, those are the fake San Niang days. True San Niang days have only 6 within a whole year so the chances of getting married in one is very low and only if you still subscribe to the belief. :)

          • R4A

            Hi, I just saw in the comment up there. lol. i was wrong. hummm actually we are trying to avoid Sept. 11 since it is 9/11 in the U.S. I will be getting married in the US. And Sept 4 is 7th lunar month, which i’ve read in a site that it is best to avoid 3rd,6th and 7th lunar month.humm is it true? thanks

          • Stanley

            Hi R4A,

            Sept 4th is not a good day either. As for avoiding the 3rd, 6th and 7th lunar month, avoiding the 7th lunar month makes sense as it is also the month of the Chinese Hungry Ghost Festival though I am curious why the site you visited says to avoid the 3rd and 6th lunar months.

          • R4A

            Hi Stanley, I think I’ll just ask you, aside from those dates you listed above for the month of September, what are other dates that is suitable for me and my fiance to get married in that month provided with our birth-dates? Thank you for being kind in answering my queries Stanley. :)

          • Stanley

            Hi R4A,

            There are definitely other wedding dates that are personally auspicious for both you and your fiance but to find those dates that will be a payable service as it will involve calculations and proper selection. The fee itself is S$88, which can be paid through the Paypal icon located at the upper right corner of my site. :)

  • Yen

    Hi stanley! I would like to professionally seek your advice regarding auspicious wedding date for me and my fiancee, as you know this year is a widow year. What’s the difference between standard and deluxe wedding date selection methods? Thank you

    • Stanley

      Hi Yen,

      The difference between our deluxe and regular package is the modalities used in the date selection. The deluxe package uses 3 different modalities (Bazi, Wetsern Astrology and Numerology) while the regular package uses only one single modality (bazi) commonly used by most feng shui masters. And because the deluxe package uses more modalitites, the already auspicious wedding dates selected by bazi (regular package) will be further fine-tuned and filtered by western astrology and numerology. The resulting wedding date will be the very best and most auspicious available to you. :)

  • Vanessa

    Hi
    Bride is 5/29/79
    Groom is 2/13/1878

    How is 10/11/13?
    Thank u

  • JJ

    Hi Stanley,

    Seek your advice…

    Both us plan to register 12th June this year.

    Just wondering the date good to go..

    Bride : 10th Nov 1979
    Groom : 21st Sept 1979

  • Sarah

    I am July 24, 1982 and he is October 26, 1976 is October 5 a good day to get married? Also, what is the risk of getting married on a day that is “against dog” if I am a dog? Thanks!

    • Stanley

      Hi Sarah,

      Well, depending on how severe the conflict of the day is with your birth chart, among other considerations, it sets the tone for how much extra effort and work you may have to put into your marriage to maintain the way you want it to be.

  • odie

    Hi Stanley! Can you please tell me the auspicious wedding date in November & December 2013.
    FYI, our D.O.B
    Groom: 13 February 1986
    Bride: 09 March 1985

  • Debbie

    Hi Stanley,

    My fiance and I are planning to have our ROM on 7 July 2013, 1700-1859hrs. We are looking at 15 October 2014 for customary wedding.

    Groom: 17 Jan 1982 (Rooster)
    Bride: 14 Jan 1983 (Dog)

    Can you kindly advise if the above dates are good?

  • Yen

    Hi it’s me again stanley… Sorry i am a bit confused but my fiancee and i would really like to avail your services, we just want to clarify few things. if we avail either your regular or deluxe service, will you be giving us a list of dates or is it a single date only for our auspicious wedding date? And will you also be giving us a specified time of the day if it’s just a regular consult? Thank you so much

    • Stanley

      Hi Yen,

      Whether you pick the regular service or the deluxe service, I will provide you with a list of 3 dates, based in order of auspiciousness, according to both you and your fiancee’s birthdates. But that is not all. If for whatever reason you can’t use the dates originally provided, I will re-select other auspicious dates for you AT NO EXTRA CHARGE. The same goes for the selection of the auspicious hour for your wedding. My only concern is that both of you get married on the best and most personally auspicious day and time. :)

  • Ann

    Hi! My fiance and I would like to get married this year in late september/early october.

    Bride: 9/17/1981
    Groom: 10/8/1978

    Do you have any siggestions for dates between Sept.25-October 10?

    Thank you so much!

  • Joz

    Hi Stanley,
    We are planning a Oct 2013 wedding.
    Bride dob: 04/07/82 (Dog)
    Groom dob: 06/12/82 (Dog)

    We are looking at 19 or 20 Oct.
    Can you kindly advise if the above dates are good?

    Thanks for your advice!

  • Mark

    Hi Stanley,

    Stumbled across your website and it is really very interesting!

    My fiancee and i are planning to have our marriage on 15 june 2013. She was born on 01 june 1980 and i m on 06 december 1984.

    What do you think of our dates – 15 june 2013?

    Thanks in advance.

  • zuzana

    Bride: 13.03.1985 OX
    Groom: 31.03.1984 RAT

    Hi there,

    can you help us choose a best day for our wedding day in August?
    Could be date 08/18/2013 auspicious for wedding?
    Thank you very much for your answer.

    • Stanley

      Hi Zuzana,

      08/18 is not an ideal date for marriage.

      • zuzana

        Hi Stanley,

        What do you think about 08/31/13 or 07/26/13
        Could be this date auspicious for wedding?
        Next wednesday we have to confirm on council our date of wedding and I am so unsure and confused.
        Please help me choose right date.
        Bride: 13.03.1985 OX
        Groom: 31.03.1984 RAT
        Thank you

        • Stanley

          Hi Zuzana,

          To save yourself the headache and uncertainty, why not just get your auspicious wedding date properly and professionally selected for you? Wouldn’t it be worth $88 to make sure that your wedding happens on a day that is personally auspicious and more importantly, harmonious for the both of you? :)

  • sharron

    hi, just want to know if june 10,2013 is a good day to get married for a bride’s DOB jan 5,1977 and for the groom’s DOB sept 3,1978?

  • Sebastian

    Hi I was just wondering if we would be able to marry on 14 September 2013?

    Bride dob 1 February 1981
    Groom dob 6 December 1985

    Thank you

  • Audry

    Hi,
    I heard that 2013 is a Widow year and is not good for marriage. Is it true?

  • sharron

    thank you so much…:)

  • Hi, can i check if 24 Aug 2013 is a good day for our ROM:
    groom: 20 Nov 1973
    bride: 28 July 1976

    Thanks

  • jazz

    Hi Stanley ,

    My fiance and i planning to get married this coming June 25,2013..My fiance was born in Feb 25,1977 and me May 12,1986.Just want to know if it is a good day to have our wedding.

    Thank you for your advice …God Bless :)

  • nisha

    Hi Stanley ,

    My fiance and i are planning to get married this coming November 14th,2013

    hIS DOB :30-10-1984
    My DOB: 23-04-1983

    Is it a good day for us to get married.Thanks

  • Burger

    Bride DOB 8 March 1976
    Groom DOB 12 April 1978
    Could 30 Jun 2013 be auspicious for wedding?

  • ajt

    hi stanley,

    Groom: nov 25, 1983
    Bride: sept 15, 1985

    is june 9 or 11 good for our wedding day?

    thanks in advance :)

  • ron

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom’s : 4 Oct 1981
    Bride’s : 12 Oct 1982

    And we are planning to ROM in June 2013 (soon). Any auspicious dates (weekends preferred :P) and any dates to AVOID?

    Thanks a lot!
    Ron.

    • Stanley

      Hi Ron,

      You can choose from any of the auspicious June wedding dates as listed on my site. Just avoid the Rabbit and Dragon days. :)

  • ajt

    wow! thanks sir stanley :)

  • SV

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom 05.08.1983 time 1am and bride 30.12.1980 time 9am – Any Saturdays that are auspicious day for a wedding in December 2013?

    :)

    Thanks,
    SV

  • nisha

    hi stanley,
    how sweet of you,
    thank you :)

  • Vanessa

    Hi Stanley
    Bride 5-29-79
    Groom 2-13-78

    WeddingDate 11-12-13 at 3 or 4pm
    Thanks

  • Vee

    Her : 8th January 1979
    His : 19th February 1976
    Wedding Day : 22nd December 2013

    Please advice! :)

  • Fion

    HI,my bf and I intend to get ROM this year on 20 nov 2013.

    MY DOB is 24/10/1990 (HORSE)
    BF DOB is 17/09/1988 (DRAGON)

    Is this a good date for us to get married? Will 2014 be more ideal for us?

    Please advise, thank you very much.

  • Manelle

    Hi, Stanley! Me and my boyfriend wants to get married around June or July. So far the dates we picked are June 19 or July 16. My birthdate is July 26, 1985 and my boyfriend is December 19, 1981. However, his mom who is chinese suggest that we get married on either September 12 or 20, between 1pm-4pm. Please tell me your thoughts.

  • pioggia

    Hi Stanley,

    Somehow couldn’t see my queries to you anymore.. I would like to seek your advise if ROM on 23rd Jun 13 or 7th Jul 13 is ok for me.

    groom DOB: 30 Nov 1973
    bride DOB: 9 Dec 1977

    Thank you once again.

  • Sha

    Hi Stanley,

    Could you kindly advise me on the best wedding dates among 4?

    Groom: 15 August 1980
    Bride: 17 September 1977

    Potential dates: 11,16,18,20 December 2013.

    Thank you very much for your time and patience! :)

  • Antonette

    Hello Stanley , I need your help I need to know what’s the best day for us to get married this June. I’ve been thinking June 1, 8, or 9.
    Groom- July 17, 1980
    Bride- July 17, 1969

    We got married once in Sept 10, 2005 and got divorced in Nov. 6, 2007
    But got back together in Jan. 2011

    Thank you for your help.

    Ann

  • Maria Antonette

    Ok now I just thought of June 3 – what do you think of those dates , Mr. Stanley? Pls. Help

    Ann

  • Joyce

    Hi Stanley,

    Found your website and was intrigue.

    Groom – 22 Feb 1986
    Bride – 09 Jan 1986

    We would like to know if 18/7/13 is a good day for R.O.M? Preferable between 16/7/13 – 27/7/13.
    Hope to hear from you.

  • an

    Hi Mr. Stanley,
    Groom 1/20/72
    bride 1/23/68
    Civil wedding 10/08/12 and church wedding on 10/05/13 at 2pm . Is it a good date? If not, when? Thanks!

  • jade

    hi stanley
    l have been proposed and l need to set a date suitable for my wedding before l turn 30 yrs this year 2013 the details are as follows
    bride(me) 07/10/1983
    Groom 03/07/1984.thanks pls advise

  • nalyn

    good day Stanley,

    Groom Oct 9, 1985
    bride Mar 18, 1985
    tentative date: Dec 21, 2013
    if this date is not good, which is better dec 20 or dec 23? we are planning to celebrate it before christmas.
    is it good to start the ceremony at 2pm?

    Thank you very much,
    nalyn

  • ashley

    Hi Stanley,
    please do advise me too

    partner: 24.12.1989 me: 17.06.1981
    wedding date : 13.06.2013 pls advise is this date good and any time to avoid?
    Thank you

  • Marichelle

    Hi stanley,
    Groom: Dec 3, 1979 time 5:08am
    Bride: Dec 20, 1980 time 9:04pm
    Dec 18, 2013 is our chosen date, is it a good day for us?
    Thank you! =)

  • Reina

    Hi Stanley ,

    My fiance and i are planning to get married this coming December 7th,2013

    hIS DOB :12-03-1978
    My DOB: 21-09-1984

    Is it a good day for us to get married.

    Thank you in advance!

  • JV

    Bride Oct 18, 1978
    Groom Oct 22, 1975

    Wedding Oct 19, 2013

  • A.Lawrence

    Hi Stanley,
    We ‘ve arranged to marry on 6th or 7th of September 2013.my birthday is 21.june.1983 and his birthday is 27.december.1980.which date would you suggest.
    Thanks in advance:)
    A.Lawrence

  • fortune2luck

    Hi Stanley,

    our birth date is January 6 1988 and April 4 1989. Our birth year is Year of the Earth Snake and Fire rabbit.

    I would like to ask if is it fine to get marry on December 7, 14, or 21? These are only the applicable dates for December. Thank u so much!

  • Lheen

    Hello Stanley,

    Groom: Dec 30, 1987
    Bride: July 13, 1982

    Our wedding day is July 28, 2013 is this auspicious day for our wedding?

  • hazel

    birthdate is march 24, 1986 and my partner’s is october 27, 1985… we plan to get married on dec 8 of this year…

  • anne

    Hi me and my fiance would like to get married in October, which day is lucky for us.?

    Bridegroom Set. 06, 1977
    Bride Aug. 02, 1977

  • AMANDA

    Hello Stanley
    bride nov 7 1985
    groom feb 25 1980
    ROM is dec 13 2013

  • estelle

    Hi Stanley,

    we are planning to ROM on

    Bride : 16 Feb 1984
    Groom: 31 May 1982

    need your advise on the suitability of the following choices of wedding dates (probably after 2pm):
    1. 2, 9, 16, 23, 30 Nov
    2. 7, 14, 21,28 Dec

    Thank u very much in advance!

  • Yanet

    Hi Stanley
    my fiance and I chose to get married on August 18th 2013, we are just not so sure about the time of the day. We think 1:30 or 2:00pm will work for us but do you have any other suggestions? his DOB is July 12/1989, mine is June 11/1984
    Thanks!!

  • Rachel

    My fiance is born on 24 June 1979 and I’m born on 11 April 1977.
    We intend to ROM on 12 July 2013. Is it a good date for us? Is there any timing we need to note of?

    Many Thanks!

  • Ritu

    Can you please tell me auspicious dates with time to get married in Aug and September 2013

    Groom: 25th June 1979
    Bride: 16th Feb 1978

  • Charmaine

    Hi Stanley,

    Is there a difference between the ROM date and the official Chinese wedding date? What happens if one is on an inauspicious date while the other is ideal? Which one counts?

    Our details are as follows:

    Bride: 17 Jan 1986 (Ox)
    Groom: 22 Jun 1983 (Pig)

    ROM: 19 July 2013
    Wedding: 15 Feb 2014

    Appreciate your advice thank you!

    • Stanley

      Hi Charmine,

      The only important wedding date is the day when both of you becomes officially Mr and Mrs so-and-so, husband and wife. This means the ROM. Religious weddings are of secondary importance. By the way, I recommend you choose another date for both your ROM and Chinese wedding as both dates are not good for getting married in.

  • ma.gracia cecilia gionson

    hi madam,my fiance is december 19,1985 and me is nov
    22,1977. what is the lucky date for us. thank you

  • riza

    hi stanley..

    Bride-May 30, 1990
    Groom-April 6, 1983

    wer planning to get married on July 25,2013 is it lucky for us?

  • Lorraine

    Dear Stanley, just want to thank you for providing such a service for us.

    We have gotten a date for our customary and rom on 20th sept 2013 and the auspicious timing is from 6.05am to 8am. Is it a must for us to follow this timing strictly? My fiancé and i live far from each other and we’re worried the morning traffic congestions will result in us arriving later than 8am at the groom’s place. Will it be a serious issue if we exceed the auspicious hours?

    Our birth dates:
    Groom: 05 September 2013 8.21pm
    Bride: 17 July 1984 1.57am

    Many many thanks.

    • Lorraine

      Apologies, the groom’s birth date is 05 sept 1978 8.21pm

    • Stanley

      Hi Lorraine,

      Although I am curious as to why that timing is given (or for that matter why that day), it is best to follow it if it was chosen by a qualified date selection practitioner as both you and your husband will be married in the best available Qi that will add much harmony and maritial bliss to your marriage. There are no serious repercussions if you miss the auspicious hours. You will just not benefit from it at 100%. The only problem is the following hours after the auspicious timing clashes with either you or your husband’s birthdate. Having said that, wouldn’t leaving the house that much eariler solve your problem? :)

  • Angela

    Hi Stanley,
    plz help, me n fiance want to get married, he is 9/dec/1976 and me 7/jan/1980 which date is lucky for us?
    thx :)

  • mark anthony calantoc

    my wife was born march 24 1989 and my bdate is sept 26 1985…our date plan for our weding is june 19 2013,is dis a lucky for us?

  • anne

    We are planning to be married either on July 28, 2013 or April 28, 2014. Which date would u suggest? what time of day the would you recommend. His DOB is August 20, 1989 & mine is December 16, 1987,Thanks.

    • Stanley

      Hi Anne,

      You can choose any of the 2013 auspicious wedding date from the list on my website http://www.pureclassicalfengshui.com/?p=1408 as they are supposed to be free. As for the 2014 wedding dates, you may need to wait for a while. But if you would like a personal wedding date chosen according to you and your fiance’s birth dates then there is a token fee of $88 SGD for the service. Thank you. :)

  • riza zabuco

    So, stanley what Is the best date for month july is Lucky for Us? Thanks.

  • Laura

    I know it’s a bit far away, but my fiancee and I are planning to get married on 21 DEzember 2014. Hid DOB is 8 April 1991, and mine is 14 September 1992. Is it a good date?

    • Stanley

      Hi Laura,

      The auspicious wedding dates on my website are free to be consulted and used but they are only for this year. If you would like a personal wedding date chosen according to you and your fiance’s birth dates for next year, then there is a token fee of $88 SGD for the service. Thank you. :)

  • aerin

    We are planning for register of marriage on august,am a boar nov 7 1983 and my bf is oct 7 1984..can u pls choose a good day for marriage on august?thanks!

  • My fiancé’s birth date is Aug 9, 1961
    My birth date is Feb 23, 1963
    We are considering June 29 or June 30 to get married. Is one of these dates better than the other?

  • june

    halo stanley,
    which is a better date for a wedding ..july 6, 2013 or july 20 2013?..bride:june 16,1979 groom:april 27,1989

  • Daphne

    Hi, please advise on whether these dates are ideal for wedding dinner + rom?

    Groom : 12 Nov 1985 (ox)
    Bride : 23 May 1986 (tiger)

    22, 29 sept
    5,6,12,13 oct

  • Alright. My birthday is 05/05/1972 and my boyfriend’s DOB is 07/26/1962. We are getting married by a Justice of the Peace and were looking to do it July 15, 2013. Is this a good date for us? It is on another website for auspicious date to get married but not listed above. What would be a good date for us this summer?

    • Stanley

      Hi Aisa,

      July 15th is definitely not a good day for you to get married in. For one thing, just based on the very commonly used Dong Gong date selection system that day is a Closed Day so I am curious how the website you got the date from derives their dates. Anyway, for a relatively more auspicious date, you can chose either a day before or after. :)

  • Shayla

    Hi Stanley,

    My fiancé and I are considering getting married on September 8th or 10th, 2013. Which date would you recommend? Is this a good year for us to marry? Or would next year be better? We would love your advise…

    His Birthdate is March 18, 1981 (Rooster)
    My Birthdate is June 7, 1988 (Dragon)

    Thanks so much!

  • Dear Stanley,
    My dob is 28/05/76
    Fiancee DOB is 19/5/77.
    We are looking to marry on 19/10/2013, around 10-11am. Would this be a good/auspcious date & hour, or is there a more appropriate date/time in 2013 Summer that is better?
    Thank you in advance.

  • Adeline

    Hi. My birthday is on 13 Mar 79, my BF DOB is on 29 June 77. We have not choose any ROM dates yet and we are looking at 3rd or last week of July. Can you advise us a few dates for us to choose?

    Thank you so much!!!

  • Anne

    Would love to know several auspicious dates in Sept or October for Bride Born April 25, 1980 at 16:08 and Groom on Jan 22, 1985 at 10:18 am. Thank you. He’s a Rat and I’m a Monkey<—Bride :D

  • Alexis

    Hi Stanley,

    Can you kindly advise me on the following:

    Bride: Feb 19, 1983
    Groom: March 3, 1977

    Is it ok to get married on Dec 21, 2013

    Thank you!

  • Rose

    Hi Stanley!

    Groom: 08/22/1979 (sheep)
    Bride: 08/31/1976 (dragon)
    We are planning to have our civil wedding on the last quarter of the year. Which would be better?

    Oct 18, 2013
    Nov 8 or
    Dec 16

    Please advise. Thank you very much :)

  • Sandra

    Hello< my fiancé and I are planning a wedding for August 2014. I was hoping that you could let me know of a date which would be appropriate for us. Karl was born 21 September 1972, I was born 7 Dec 1972. Making us both Rats. I was thinking 2nd, what do you suggest?

    • Stanley

      Hi Sandra,

      All the auspicious wedding date from the list on my website, whether 2013 or 2014, are supposed to be free. But for specific wedding dates based on both your birth dates, whether in 2013 or 2104, there is a token fee of $88 SGD for the service. Thank you. :)

  • Kenji

    Hi Stanley, can you advice whether Oct 20, 2013 is a auspicious date to get married?

    Groom: Oct 02, 1977
    Bride: Oct 12, 1979

    Thank you very much :)

  • Ling

    Hello, love your website! My birthday is on 10 Jan 1985 (Rat) and my fiance is 16 Dec 1980 (Monkey). We are hoping to register in July 2013 (next month) and are trying to decide between the 26th or 28th according to your dates above. Can you please advise us if this is ok or suggest some alternatives? Thank you so much in advance!!

    • Stanley

      Hi Ling,

      Personally I would choose July 28th. As for an alternate, I would choose August but then it’s also happens to be the Hungry Ghost Month so you or your elders might not be too keen on it. :)

  • Marilyn

    Yayyyyyyyy! Loved getting the response!! You are a gem! Thankyou 4 the wise words.
    Marilyn xo

  • Anne

    Stanley please help July 29th 2013 a good day or October 13th for birthday for bride of April 25th, 1980 and Jan 22, 1985 for the groom. Does it matter location or time of birth if so April 25, 1980 4:08pm (16:08 pm) and 10:18 am Jan 22, 1985.

    • Stanley

      Hi Anne,

      Both are no good for weddings but if those are your only choices then go for Oct 13th. But I recommend at least choosing an auspicious wedding date from my list if you do not want to have it professionally selected. :)

  • Carole

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride: 1-1-1950
    Groom: 4-12-1940

    We are planning to get married on 4-12-2013. Will that be a perfect day for our nuptials? I believe it is not a good year to get married, and 2014 is worse. I look forward to you coment therein as well.

    Many Thanks

    Carole

    • Stanley

      Hi Carole,

      4-12-2013 is a good day for getting married. I am intereested to know what is your reason/s for saying that 2013 and 2014 are not good years for marriage? :)

  • Carole

    I forgot to add the time. Would you care to add 14h00 to 4th December 2013.

    Many Thanks

    Carole

  • jj

    Hi, my date of birth is April 5, 1974 and my fiancee’s is February 26, 1977. We are getting married September 1, 2013. Is this a good date?

  • AM

    Hi Stanley,

    Your website is very informative. I want to get your inputs on the best date for our wedding. It has to be between August 19-31, 2013 since that is the only time I will be in the country. Our DOB:

    Bride: Nov 30, 1981
    Groom: July 13, 1982

    Thank you!!

  • Janice

    Hi Stanley,

    Groom: 9.9.1975
    Bride: 30.11.1985

    We are getting married on 17.12.2013. Please advise whether is a good date to get married or not? Thank you.

  • Anne

    I heard August was hungry ghost month…August 7th-Sept 4th, what do you think about this belief? Thanks!

    • Stanley

      Hi Anne,

      As an asian Chinese and a Buddhist I do tend to lean towards the taboos and “rules” governing the Hungry Ghost Month like avoiding getting married during this period, for example but then that’s just me. It doesn’t mean that the “rules” will affect everyone else as it is a Chinese-specific religious belief and has nothing to do with Date Selection directly. As a Date Selection practitioner, I will still recommend a date within the Hungry Ghost Month if I deem it the best and most auspicious personal date that is available to my client. :)

  • PY

    Hey Stanley,

    Was just going to a few websites to hunt for good dates for ROM and all websites have different auspicious dates on them. My decision was just to avoid the inauspicious dates! So just to satisfy my curiosity, which of these dates 07/07/2013 or 14/07/2013 are better for our ROM at 11am?

    Groom: 30/11/1968
    Bride: 01/05/1973

    Thanks a million!

  • Hi Sir/Madam,

    My name is penchalaiah and dob:05-06-1985(wednesday),Time:4AM-4AM
    My fiance name is Lavanya and dob:26-01-1993(Monday),time:12.30PM(midnight)

    Could you please suggest me what are dates would be good for my marriage in august-2013?

    • Stanley

      Hi Penchalaiah,

      You can select from any of the auspicious dates as listd on my website as they are supposed to be free but if you are looking for a specific auspicious wedding date that is based on you and your fiance’s birthdates, then there is a token fee of $88 SGD. Thank you. :)

  • Bridie

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride: June 27, 1971
    Groom: May 28, 1972

    Please advise if October 31, 2013 at 5 PM would be a good day and time for our wedding. If that is not a good day, how is September 14, 2013 at 6 PM? Thank you.

  • Lali

    My birthday is December 9, 1983 (year of the Pig) and my fiancee’s birthday is April 24, 1984 (Rat). we plan to marry on October 30, 2013. will this be a lucky date for us?

  • Connie

    Hi, Thank you for your website. I have been trying to decide best day to get married for a few weeks now.

    Bride Birthday is 6-13-62 and Groom is 7-10-55. I am trying to select the best day to get married: July 17-19 (first option) or July 21-22 (second my least favorite option). Which day is best for us, thanks!

    • Stanley

      Hi Connie,

      If you are serious in marrying on the best day, isn’t it safer and better to pay to have it properly chosen than relying on a free date where there is no obligation nor liability on the part of the giver to give you his best? :)

  • Jenny

    Hi Stanley,

    I want to get your inputs on the best date for our wedding. It has to be between July 29 till Aug 2nd, 2013 since that is the only time I have. Our DOB:

    Bride: January 17, 1967
    Groom: October 12, 1962

    Please advise. Thank you.

  • Marianna

    Dear Stanley,

    pls advise good wedding dates for us.
    Me /bride/ 12.2.1988
    Groom 10.10.1986
    Thank you in advance.

    • Stanley

      Hi Marianna,

      You can select from any of the auspicious dates as listd on my website as they are supposed to be free but if you are looking for a specific auspicious wedding date that is based on you and your fiance’s birthdates, then there is a token fee of $88 SGD. Thank you. :)

  • Joy

    Hello Stanley!

    Was wondering if you can help us choose a date? We’re getting married this coming August and our available dates would be: August 3,4,10,11.. which one would be the best date?

    Groom: June 19, 1980
    Bride: February 27, 1988

    Thank you so much!

    Thank you!

  • Jen

    Planning to get married this July 2013. My bithday is March 17, 1978 (Fire-horse), My fiance is May 08, 1960. Ny best wedding date for the thid week or last week of July?Pls disregard early message. DOB is incorrect.

  • Anj

    Hi,

    Following up on the previous comment regarding August Hungry Ghost month, is August 24 a good date for a wedding? My DOB is Oct. 6 1987 whereas my husband-to-be’s DOB is Jan. 1 1981. Please advise.

    Thank you very much.

    • Stanley

      Hi Anj,

      August 24th is a good day for wedding. :)

      • Anj

        Hi Stanley,

        I appreciate your feedback regarding my first inquiry being Aug24 2013 a good wedding date. However, when my soon-to-be husband and I talked, he wanted to wed on our anniversary date which is September 6. Would it be wise to wed on that that day (I noticed it’s not even in your list of auspicious dates in 2013), or it would be better for us to pick other September dates close to 6,say September 3, or September 8? :)

        Thank you very much.

        • Stanley

          Hi Anj,

          Sept 6 would not be a good day to wed as that day is what is known as a Year Breaker which is considered very inauspicious for a major event like wedding. It will be better to pick either Sept 3 or 8.

  • joy

    groom:april april 6 1986
    bride:march 29,1987
    preferrable date of marriage?

    • Stanley

      Hi Joy,

      You can select from any of the auspicious dates as listd on my website as they are supposed to be free but if you are looking for a specific auspicious wedding date that is based on you and your fiance’s birthdates, then there is a token fee of $88 SGD. Thank you. :)

  • Jennifer Puri Manalo

    Good day, i was born with animal sign water dog May 21, 1982 then my fiance his Sri Lankan he is wood rat July. 18,1984, which date of July or August is lucky and compatible for our wedding day. Thank you in advance:-)

    • Stanley

      Hi Jennifer,

      You can select from any of the auspicious dates as listd on my website as they are supposed to be free but if you are looking for a specific auspicious wedding date that is based on you and your fiance’s birthdates, then there is a token fee of $88 SGD. Thank you. :)

  • joseph

    my future wife DOB is august 22,1983 and mine is november 15, 1983 wer planing to get married on sept 28 0r 29 2013 wat was the best date

    • Stanley

      Hi Joseph,

      I would consider both Sept 28 & 29 not good wedding dates but if you have no other choice and must choose one, then Sept 29.

  • Tricia

    Bride: 7 March 1974 (Tiger)
    Groom: 6 January 1950 (Ox)

    Proposed wedding date/time: Sept. 1, 2013, 4 PM

    May I ask how auspicious this date is?

  • Rupali

    Hi My DOb is 14/8/1983 & my fiance dob is on 14/1/1985…We r planning to get married on 11/12/13 plz do let us knw whether this date is suitable for marriage or not…. and also wat are lucky dates for the year 2014 from Jan to April 2014

    • Stanley

      Hi Rupali,

      11/12/13 is no good. It is a very unlucky day for marriage. As to what are the lucky dates for Jan to Apr 2014, I would not know until you engaged me to find out. :)

  • Mitch

    Hi..

    We are planning to get married on January 18, 2014 at 3:00 PM?

    Our Date of Birth:

    Bride: Sept. 23, 1984
    Groom : October 8, 1984

    Please advise… Thanks

  • deepak

    Hi ,

    My DOB is 30 june 1981 and my fiancee one is 3-Nov -1985 ,we are planning to get married on dates between 17-24 october ? is any of those days inauspicious for us ?

    Warm regards

  • Monette

    Hi, Stanley.

    My fiance and I are planning to get married on 09/21/2013. Is this an auspicious date for us?

    Bride: 07/17/1971 (Boar)
    Groom: 07/22/1969 (Rooster)

    Thank you very much.

  • Cynthia

    Hi Stanley,

    I am planning to get married traditionally this 9th Nov 2013.

    My dob: 3rd May 1985 (bride)
    Spouse: 6th Oct 1978 (groom)

    If not a good date, pls recommend the best date this year.

    Thank you.

  • Rachel

    Hi Stanley!

    My husband and I already ROM last year on 12 Dec 2012, and we are planning our customary celebration for 28 Dec 2013. His DOB is 4 June 1978 (Horse) and my DOB is 22 June 1982 (Dog). Is 28 Dec 2013 a good day for us?

    Thanks for your advice!

  • Helena

    Hi Stanley,

    My fiance and I are planning to get married on in October of 2013, but we havent been able to settle on a date. Please advise.

    Bride: 12/24/1980
    Groom: 05/14/1978

    Thank you. :)

  • Marisa

    Hi Stanley,

    My fiance and I are planning to get married on 08/26/2013 @ 3pm. Is this an auspicious date for us?

    Bride: 03/26/1979
    Groom: 06/21/1979

    Thank you.

  • Lisa

    My fiance and I are planning to get married on 10/5/2013. Is this an auspicious date for us?

    Bride: 04/23/1970
    Groom: 03/02/1973

    Thank you so much!

  • prema

    hi love! happy to have your input on an auspicious wedding date… and thanks for helping everyone with choosing the right date for this life-changing event!! :)
    groom dob: 30/05/78 (05:05 austrian time)- horse
    bride dob: 7/12/75 (00:07 toronto time) – rabbit
    am thinking of sept 1, 2013 (as numerologically, i like that it all adds up to my favourite # 7!)…
    however, if another date in early sept or late august is preferable, please let me know…
    or maybe 2014 is better?? and lastly, if sept 1, 2013 is good, would am or pm be better?
    thank you so much stanley… and have a wonderful summer!!

    • Stanley

      Hi Prema,

      Sept 1st is not ideal but still usable. It is better to get married this year than 2014.

      • prema

        hi again stanley,
        would sept 6, 7, or 8, 2013 be better for us? am thinking around 5pm… what do you think?
        thanks so much… :-)

        • Stanley

          Hi Prema,

          Spet 8 seems a better choice and timing should be before 5pm.

          • prema

            last question stanley (sorry)…
            seems to be that sept 3 might work for the whole family (coming from out of country)…
            is it a good date and is 11am or 4pm better? or is there a particular time to avoid?
            thanks again for this last confirmation… :-)

          • Stanley

            Hi Prema,

            Sept 3rd is good. Either 11am or 4pm is fine.

  • Maica

    Hi Stanley,

    DOB of bride- Oct 20, 1985
    DOB of groom- May 13, 1980

    Our wedding date is December 20, 2013 2:30 p.m. Is that generally good? Thanks!

  • yam

    Hi stanley,

    Bride: July 12, 1983
    Groom : Aug 3, 1981

    Is it ok to get married on Dec 7, 2013 or Dec 18, 2013?

    Thank you!

    • Stanley

      Hi Yam,

      The answer is no and no. :)

      • yam

        Hello Stanley,

        When should we get married? :(

        • Stanley

          Hi Yam,

          You can select from any of the auspicious dates as listd on my website as they are supposed to be free but if you are looking for a specific auspicious wedding date that is based on you and your fiancee’s birthdates, then there is a token fee of $88 SGD. Thank you. :)

          • yam

            Thank you stanley :)

          • yam

            Hi Stanley,

            What happens if we get married on december 18? The date we planned was set already.. :(

          • Stanley

            Hi Yam,

            Dec 18th is what is known as a month breaker which is considerably less negative than the year breaker but still not a good day for getting married nevertheless. Plus this year is a direct clash with your bride’s birth year so she will be at a disadvantage more than you. If changing of wedding date is unavoidable, then I suggest at least marrying during an auspicious hour. You may also want to consider getting your home feng shui done.

          • yam

            Dear Stanley,

            The time schedule on Dec 18 is 11am .. :(

          • Stanley

            Hi Yam,

            At least your wedding hour is good. So not too bad. :)

  • Jin

    Hi Stanley

    My fiance (Tiger born in 1974) and I (Dog born in 1983) have fixed our wedding date for 20 Sept 2013. As I am Teochew, my parents want the groom to fetch the bride earlier in the morning – before 9am. What would be a good timing to do so? And really, how do one define what needs to be done at that auspicious timing? The groom knocks on the bride’s room door?

    Thanks in advance for your help! :)

    • Stanley

      Hi Jin,

      Since both of you are born in the year of tiger and Dog, then I would recommend fetching the bride between 5-7am. The auspicious timing is for a specific event, like in your instance, fetching the bride. This means the bride is to leave her house during this time. Not before, not after. Knocking on the bride’s door is just not going to cut it. :)

      • Jin

        Thank you Stanley for the advice. Just another quick question – we can sometimes look at the lunar calendar (those daily ones) and see which 3-hour block is auspicious, moderate or bad timing. Am I right to say that simply by looking at the lunar calendar, we would not be able to derive anything since it is necessary to evaluate based on our zodiac too?

        • Stanley

          Hi Jin,

          Actually it’s a 2-hour block rather than a 3-hour block. :)

          And yes you are correct that the daily lunar calendar (皇曆) tells you what is the day generally auspicious for, the keyword here is “generally”. It is doesn’t take into consideration a personal’s birth chart nor is it possible to. Therefore a day that is auspicious for a particular event doesn’t automatically mean it will be auspicious for you individually, particularly if that event is of great importance.

  • Janeth

    hi,

    My fiancé & I are planning to have a civil wedding either July 24,2013 or July 30, 2013. which is better date for us?
    Bride- Feb 4, 1982
    Groom – May 17, 1977

    Thank you in advance.

  • Ann

    Hi

    My Fiance and I are planning to get married this August first week. We plan to have it on August 8 is this good date for both of us.

    Grooms Date of Birth – January 19, 1972
    Brides Date of Birth – May 20, 1982

    Thank you in Advance.

  • Anne

    Hi Stanley,

    My partner and I are deciding to get married on one of these dates :
    8, 21, 22, 28 December

    Groom – 29 oct 1988
    Bride – 27 Nov 1988

    Which is the most optimum date for us to hold our wedding?
    Thank you so much.

  • Ashley

    Hello Dear,
    We married on 13/06/2013 as per your approval.
    we still have not started life together as husband and wife because now wedding party is due.
    wedding party dates I have to choose from
    20 dec 2013, 13 dec 2013, 10 jan 2014, 17 jan 2014, 31 jan 2014, 14 feb 2014.
    pls advise which date is best for us so we can start our married life after the
    wedding party :)
    our birth info.
    me17/06/1981 , partner24/12/1989
    thank you

    • Stanley

      Hi Ashley,

      For a wedding party you do not really particularly need to select an auspicious date for it. Any of the generally auspicious dates that are listed on my website is a good day for it. :)

  • M

    Hi Stanley,

    We’re planning to get married on 19/10/2013. Is it an auspicious date for us?

    Bride – 09/01/1983 (dog)
    Groom – 02/03/1983 (pig)

    Please help us to decide. Thank you!

  • Hayasa

    Guy – 7 May 1980
    Girl – 11 Mar 1982

    Any good dates this year or next year?

    Thanks!

  • kali

    Hi,

    My DOB is 31st Jan 1987 and my fiances(gal) is 8th Feb 1987.
    We are planning to get married on Dec 13th 2013. is it good date for us to get married?
    Thanks in advance.

  • Jane

    Hi, want to ask for a good wedding date for female dec14,1971and male oct27,1982. Thank you.

    • Stanley

      Hi Jane,

      You can select from any of the auspicious wedding dates as listed on my website as they are supposed to be free but if you are looking for a specific auspicious wedding date that is based on you and your fiance’s birthdates, then there is a token fee of $88 SGD. Thank you. :)

  • belle

    Hi Stanley,

    We are actually planning to have ROM in this coming dec 2013
    Can you please advice which date is suitable for both of us
    Bride (1-July-1984)
    Groom (16-Dec-1981)

    Thanks in advance.

    • Stanley

      Hi Belle,

      You can select from any of the auspicious wedding dates as listed on my website as they are supposed to be free but if you are looking for a specific auspicious wedding date that is based on you and your fiance’s birthdates, then there is a token fee of $88 SGD. Thank you. :)

  • Maria

    Hi Stanley,

    Just wanna ask which date is best this year, Oct 5, Oct 19 or Oct 20.
    Bride (dog) Jan 9, 1983
    Groom (pig) Mar 2, 1983.
    Thank you in advance.

  • CHA

    Hi Stanley!

    I have to reconstruct, which do you think will be a good date to marry this year,
    July 30 or August 8?

    Bride’s Bday: 03.21.83
    Groom’s Bday: 04.03.85

    Please..please! :)

  • Sha

    Hi Stanley,

    You told me previously that 16 Dec 2013 is suitable for us but is there a time I should avoid? My wedding is currently planned for 4.30pm.

    Groom : 15/08/1980
    Bride: 17/09/1977

    Thank you so much Stanley!

  • WS

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride (dog): Dec 26, 1982
    Groom (dog): Apr 5, 1982
    ROM: 11 Sept/12 Sept/14 Sept, 2013
    Fetching the Bride (娶新娘): 28 Feb, 2014

    Could you please let me know which ROM date is acceptable, and whether the fetching the bride date is ok?

    Many thanks.

  • Jitendra Das

    My DOB is 28 March 1984 and hers is 25 September 1987. We want to get married in December (preferably 20 December). Please suggest if the date is fine or advise some other dates.

  • Barry

    Hi Stanley,

    We’re looking for a day to get legally married (signing of paper). Is Sept 8th a good day for us? The wedding ceremony will be happening on Nov 10th.

    Groom: Oct 26, 1985
    Bride: Aug 3, 1986

    Thank you,
    Barry

  • Eric H.

    Hi Stanley

    Will it be ok to get married on my Birthday this year, 4th of December 2013.

    Me (Ox): 04/12/1985
    Bride (Pig): 24/05/1983

    thank you so much in advance

  • AJ

    Hi Stanley, I am getting married on Sept. 1, 2013 at 3:30 pm. What do you think of this date and time? Bride = 02.27.1978. Groom = 04.25.1982. Thank you.

  • suvarna

    HI,

    Please advise the marriage dates for us.

    Groom: 16th Feb 1985
    Bride: 15th May 1989.

    we are planning to get marry in August. Please suggest us whether it is ok to get marriage in this month & also with the dates. If it is not please let me know which will the suitable month with date will be good for us to get marry.

    Please advise. it will be great help from you.

    Thank you
    Suvarna

  • darrah

    HI STANLEY! IM A DRAGON(MAY 14,1976, MONKEY HOUR) & MY FIANCE IS A ROOSTER (JANUARY 16,1958, OX HOUR). WE ARE PLANNING TO GET MARRIED EITHER ON AUGUST 19, 2013 OR AUGUST 26, 2013. WHICH IS THE VERY AUSPICIOUS DATE FOR US? THANX IN ADVANCE. GOD BLESS U ALWAYS! MORE POWER!

  • Jitendra Das

    Hi Stanley,

    What do you mean by Dec 20 is serviceable? We are planning to do court marriage without any rituals involved? Kindly suggest the best dates? What problems may come if we get married on Dec 20?

    DOB is 28 March 1984 (Jitendra Das) and hers is 25 September 1987 (Megha Thakuri)

    • Stanley

      Hi Jitendra,

      It means that Dec 20 can still be used although there are other much better wedding dates available. The wedding date is chosen solely for the civil wedding and not for the religious wedding as the civil wedding date supercedes the religious wedding date. I will not know what problems may come until I completely analyse both your birth charts and that is beyond the scope of this free service. :)

  • Rowena

    Hello. Thinking of getting married on October 28 2013. Is the date we pick auspicious?

    Bride: July 2, 1979 (sheep)
    Groom:October 11, 1980 (monkey)

    Thank you

  • marie

    hi! stanley My birthday is feb 4, 1989 year of the dragon and my fiance is june 8, 1985 year of the ox we are wondering which date is better august 7,2013 or august 10,2013? we are very interested to know if the ghost month will affect this dates. thank you in advance!

    • Stanley

      Hi Marie,

      Aug 10th would be better and typically most people will avoid marrying in the ghost month. By the way, you may be born in the year of the Snake and not the Dragon. :)

  • Stefanie

    Hi Stanley,

    Me and my fiancée is planning on ROM this year October onwards. Either 6th or 19th is the suggested date from his parents. Which date is a good day for us or do you any other better date for us?

    Bride: 26/10/1981
    Groom: 05/04/1976

    Thanks!

  • P.A

    Hi,

    we have been in a relationship since 2011 and we recently got married secretly in Thailand on jan 24th 2013..since then both of us have been unlucky in personal life and career and there isn’t any peace in our lives(we are having frequent fights often)..should we get married again? if yes, then when? i need your advise

    Bride’s date of birth- 21/1/1991

    Groom’s date of birth- 12/10/1985

    Thank you!

    • Stanley

      Hi P.A

      I think your problem is not so much getting married again (although that might help to a certain degree) but a compatibility and personality issue. I advise getting both your birth charts analysed so that you know where both of you are tripping yourselves up and what are both your strengths so that you can take advantage of them. You may also want to take a look at your house feng shui.

  • darrah

    THANK U SO MUCH STANLEY. GOD BLESS U ALWAYS! MORE POWER!;-)

  • Chan

    Hi Stanley,

    We’re looking for a Good Date/day to get legally married (signing of paper). Is Sept 25th a good day for us?
    Or you can tell me the good date in september 2013.

    Male:7/6/1969 (ROOSTER)
    Female:14/6/1983 (PIG)

    Please Reply Me
    THANX IN ADVANCE. GOD BLESS U ALWAYS! MORE POWER!
    Thank

  • Shana

    Hi Stanley.

    My friend is trying to fix a date for ROM this September 2013. She isn’t very superstitious but I personally would like to ask on her behalf to make sure it is done on an auspicious date.

    Bride: 23/12/1988
    Groom: 06/09/1990 (both Georgian calendar)

    Their proposed date is 21/09/2013. Her fiance is kinda concerned when it doesnt seem very auspicious when he checked the chinese calendar.

    Thank you for your help.

    • Stanley

      Hi Shana,

      Sept 21st is not a very good day for getting married. The day before will be a relatively better choice. But if your friend doesn’t want to change the date then the next best option will be auspicious timing. :)

  • jamina

    hi stanley,

    i am 26 y.o year of birth july 7,1987 and my partner is june 10 1987. wer planning to get married this august in civil. is august 22 is good?or not?

    best regards,

    jamina.

  • lenlen

    hi stanley i want to ask what is the lucky month in 2014 for our marriage.

    my DOB 12/14/88
    my boyfriends DOB 9/14/82
    thank u…
    i ask again because i cannot see my old post as well as your reply

  • Jenny Santos

    Will you please help us..if aug.13 @ 5pm is ok for a civil wedding??
    Need your response asap.
    Thanks n more power. .

  • Jenny Santos

    What do we do ?my nephews are tiger n dragon..that’s all set the venue, invitation, etc..do you have a charm for that??? Any suggestions??

  • Xianne

    Hi stanley,
    My fiance and I planned to set our civil wedding on august 23,2013. His dob is aug 6,1989 and mine is dec 21, 1986. Is it a good date for the event? Were both catholics by the way..

    Hope you can help us.

    Thank you and more power.

  • Paradise

    Hi Stanley if I buy today how soon and accurately, can you select a wedding date for this month or Oct and Nov of 2013, since I don’t know which month to get married yet. Please email me if you can! Thank you so much!

  • Autumn

    Hi Stanley,

    My fiance and I are planning to get married next year. Our dob, 13th April 1977 and 26th September 1967.

    May I ask if Sep 6, 13 or 20, 2014 good date for us?

    Do we need to have an auspicious date for registration of marriage? I am asking because we are not living in the same country.

    Thank you and I really appreciate your kind advice.

    • Stanley

      Hi Autumn,

      Yes, it will be good if you can complete your registration of marriage on an auspicious day, in fact it is important to do so. And as for whether those Sept dates in 2014 are good dates for you, kindly read my posting all the way to the end. Thank you. :)

  • ckwok

    Hi,
    Was wondering if you might help with the pick up bride and back to groom place timings please? Thanks much Stanley!
    Groom: 8th June 1984
    Bride: 9th Nov 1984
    Wedding date: 20th Oct 2013

    Thanks Stanley

  • chee

    Hi Stanley,
    Just wondering if 21 Oct 2013 is a good date for our marriage
    Him: 17/02/1977
    Her: 26/11/1976

  • marix

    Hi Stanley…

    My birthdate is Nov. 22, 1983 and my fiancé is Oct. 11, 1978… Sept. 28, 2013 is good for our wedding date? and what time?… please send me mail :) appreciate your urgent reply… or which date is better?

    Thank You :)

  • Leo

    Bride 8-11-1981
    Groom 8-31-1967

    11-10-13 for anticipated date?

  • Gine

    Hi Mr. Stanley,

    We plan to get married this year but were not sure of the dates yet. I was born on Oct. 29,1983 under the year of Pig and my fiancé was born on June 09,1985 under the year of Ox. Which date should be appropriate with us? Is Oct 28 or 31 good enough for us?

    Thankyu!

  • Sneha

    Hi,

    My DOB is 26th April 1986 and my fiance’s DOB is 9th November 1984, our wedding has been schedule on 10th November 2013.

    Could you please advise is 10hh November a good day for our marriage and can you suggest at what time we can start our wedding ceremony.

    Appreciate your prompt reply on my email id – snhsurendran@gmail.com.

    Thanks and regards,

  • Robert

    Hi statnley,

    Is it the best time for us to get married on November 2,2013?

    Grooms bday = january 25,1982
    bride = june 10,1984

    Thanks!

  • Cindy

    Hi Stanley..

    My fiance and i plan to ROM on the 13th Oct 2013. May i know is it a good day for the both of us.

    Male : 29th Oct 1987
    Female : 2nd Jan 1990

    • Stanley

      Hi Cindy,

      Oct 13th is not a good day for marrying plus it clashes with the birth year of the bride. Please choose another or consider picking from the Oct wedding dates listed on my site. :)

  • Shan

    Hi stanley!
    Will it be ok if we get married on January 10, 2014 at 4pm?
    Bride: August 5, 1984, 12:15 noon
    Groom: August 21, 1986, 4:30pm
    Thanks! :)

  • Morgan

    I am Virgo (9/16/1980) and my fiance is Leo (7/31/1980)and we are getting married on October 19, 2013.

  • Marina

    Hello Stanley!!!

    We’re looking for a Good Date/day to get married. Is Saturday 14.12.2013 a good day for us? The hour of wedding is between 5-7 afternoon.

    Male :24/11/1978
    Female:29/07/1981

    Please Reply Me
    THANX IN ADVANCE. GOD BLESS U ALWAYS!
    Thank you!!!

  • marix

    Hi Stanley,

    Please help me to choose a date for my wedding next month. My birth date is Nov. 22, 1983 and my fiance Oct. 11, 1978..

    Appreciate your urgent reply… thanks

  • Leddie Fresnoza

    Hi Stanley,
    I would like to know if getting married in the church this coming Oct.19, 2013 will be good for us. I do love the number 8 but it wasn’t included in the lucky dates for this year.
    Bride’s B-date: Nov.9, 1985
    Groom’s B-date: Sept. 16, 1983
    May I also ask about the best time, if you may. Thanks. Kindly e-mail me your answer.

  • marie

    hi Stanley!

    is dec 21 or 28, 2013 good for marriage?

    Bride: July 6, 1984
    Groom: October 11, 1980

    thank you!

  • marie

    thanks stanley! how about dec18, 2013? is it still a good date for us? Is dec18 a better choice than 21? thanks!
    Bride: July 6, 1984
    Groom: October 11, 1980

  • patricia

    Is 18 Dec lucky day?

    Bride 31.10.75
    Groom 2.5.45

  • Marie

    Is Dec. 1,2013 a ggod day for us?
    bride 08/05/1979
    groom 04/01/1982

  • Quin

    Hi Stanley,

    Is Oct 27 or 28 2013 good for marriage?
    Any best timing?

    Groom: Oct 28, 1976
    Bride: Aug 21, 1976

    Thanks!

  • shelou

    hi there stanley..i would just like to ask for an opinion if OCT 19, 2013 at 3pm good for marriage????

    groom= may 12, 1986
    bride= january 20, 1988

  • Yssa

    Hi Stanley,

    We are planning to get married on November. Groom’s birthday: Dec 22, 1980 Bride’s birthday: November 19. 1984. What’s the best day on November to get married. Thank you so much!

    • Stanley

      Hi Yasa,

      Yes, I can help you choose the BEST and most auspicious Nov date to get married but there will be a token fee of $88 SGD payable. Alternatively you can choose from any of the Nov wedding dates listed on my site. Thank you. :)

  • lee

    Good Afternoon,

    Please advise me is 19th October morning a good date for us.

    My details are
    Bride 13th March 1979
    Groom 1st July 1975

    thanks

  • Joanne

    Hi Stanley,

    30th Nov a good day for us?

    Bride 18.11.86 Tiger
    Groom 07.02.85 Rat

  • Joanne

    Hi Stanley,

    Its Joanne again.

    We’re given these dates selection for ROM.
    Oct 26
    Nov 10, 16, 17
    Dec 7, 8, 14, 21, 22

    May I know which date is the best for ROM?
    Thanks again~

  • Pauskee

    Hello Stanley,

    What is the BEST date to get married on the month of October? We can’t decide on a date yet. We’re wondering if you could help us choose the date. Thank you very much!

    Groom: 06/06/78
    Bride: 06/10/65

    • Stanley

      Hi Pauskee,

      Yes, I can help you choose the BEST and most auspicious Oct date to get married but there will be a token fee of $88 SGD payable. Alternatively you can choose from any of the Oct wedding dates listed on my site. :)

  • Jane

    Dog Groom: August 24, 1982
    Rooster Bride: April 28, 1981

    Thinking of eloping on Oct.5, is this a good day?

  • jay ar

    Hi Sir stanley do you have 2014 book already?
    Just want to ask if it’s ok to get married on oct 26 2014?
    Groom : Jan 25 1980
    Bride : Feb 14 1985

    tnx….

  • Sherilyn

    Hi there my fiance’s Amante is on November 17th,1987 and mine is on February 07th, 1986. we were thinking in having our wedding on December 8th, 2013, are these good dates? also I’m really confused about the time for our wedding, is it a 5pm, I’m just trying to create a good feng shui for my wedding. Please help! Thanks :D

    • Stanley

      Hi Sherilyn,

      Although Dec 8th is a good date for getting married, it is not a good day for you personally. And the hour of your wedding is not good for your husband-to-be. I recommend you set another date and time for your wedding.

  • Just knight

    Hi my birthday is
    2 November 1972 male
    my partner is also male and his birthday is
    29 September 1980
    What are the best days to get married in Nov and December in 2013?

    • Stanley

      Hi Just Knight,

      All the auspicious dates wedding dates for Nov and Dec are listed on my site. You can choose from any of them if you just want a generally auspicious date. But if you are serious in getting married on a day that is personally auspicious for you and your partner then there is a small token fee of $88 for the service. Thank you. :)

  • darrah

    hi Stanley! my husband(rooster:jan.16,1958,born:ox hour) & I(dragon:may14,1976,born:monkey hour) got married last month, september 16, 2013. was it an auspicious day for the two of us? thanx a lot in advance. God bless u always. more power! ;)

  • Mitch

    Hi stanley….
    My fiance dob is oct. 8, 1984 and mine is sept. 23, 1984.
    We set our wedding on January 8, 2014 at 3:00 pm.
    Is this a good or auspicious date for us?

  • Lynn

    Hi Stanley,
    We are considering to ROM on 9 Nov, 24 Nov or 8 Dec, which would be best for us?
    Groom : 12 Jul 1982
    Bride : 7 Oct 1982

  • Rachel

    hi would like to ROM this year can u help me choose a date.

    our lunar birth date
    girl: 1987 6月 18日
    boy: 1986 1月 26日

    • Stanley

      Hi Rachel,

      You can select from any of the auspicious wedding dates as listed on my site but if you would like a wedding date that is chosen according to you and your boyfriend’s birthdate, then there is a token fee of $88 SGD for the service.

      By the way, the birthdates you provided are a mix of both gregorian and lunar dates. Your actual lunar calendar birth date is 6th month 18, 4685. :)

  • sharren

    Dear Stanley,
    Hi. We’ve booked November 9th 2013 for our R.O.M, 9am. In my country we could only do civil ceremony on Saturday.
    Our DOB: Bride- 10th March 1985, 1.00am & Groom- 5th February 1985
    Is the date okay?

    Is the R.O.M. dates more important than the chinese culture “groom pick up bride” day?

    Thanks in advance

    • Stanley

      Hi Sharren,

      Yes, it is a good day. :)

      “Groom pick up bride” is also known as fetching the bride and it is not a day but a timing. And yes, the ROM date is the most important date in a marriage.

      • sharren

        Thankyou Stanley. I feel so much better knowing it’s verified as a good day. Bless you.

        • sharren

          Dear Stanley, I’m sorry to flood your messages. I went through most of the messages n your response, it seems Dec 14 is nt an ideal date. But for many reasons we are stuck with Dec 14 for groom pick bride, tea ceremony. Is 9 to 11am a good hour. Thx in advance.

  • Jeraline

    Hi stanley! Please also see if this two dates are good for marriage Nov. 20 and December 28. We were expanding our choices to 4 possible dates and the time of the ceremony will be 3pm gmt +8. Please advise. Thank you!

    • Stanley

      Hi Jeraline,

      I think you might have a misunderstanding somewhere as I DO NOT choose auspicious wedding dates for anyone pro bono. That is why I have a list of auspicious wedding dates posted on my website for free. :)

  • elwin

    hi Stanley,
    i’m planning to register my marriage on 3rd or 4th of December 2013. is the date ok?
    groom : 29/10/80
    bride : 26/04/79

  • Mary

    Hi Stanley,

    Bride DOB: 31/7/72
    Groom DOB: 27/12/56

    Planned ROM: 13/12/13

    Is it an auspicious and ideal date for us?

    • Stanley

      Hi Mary,

      13/12/13 is a good day but if you want to know whether it is THE perfect day or are there any other better dates that are even better, why not take up our Basic Wedding Package and remove all doubt? :)

  • Dylan Chua

    Hi Stanley ,
    I like to see whether 8 December 2013 is suitable for us.
    Groom’s is 7 January 1985( rat ) ox year but born rat
    Bride’s Is 14 June 1987 ( rabbit )
    Our timing to pick up bride’s is morning 7am to 10am
    Our dinner is 7.30pm
    The date you recommend for marriage is good for us but I check the Chinese calendar and it say is not a good day for marriage. Pls advise. Thank you very much.
    Please let me know if you need any more information.

    • Stanley

      Hi Dylan,

      That’s the problem with retail chinese calendars and Tong Shus. 3 different publishers will give you 3 different answers. :)

      Anyway 8th Dec itself is a good day for getting married (except for people born in the year of the Tiger or if the couple’s bazi has Tiger in their spouse palace).

  • Jeraline

    Date of birth Groom August 28, 1984 , bride October 12, 1985. Which one of these two dates is good for us Nov. 30 or December 28. Please reply. Thank you!

  • VINODDH

    Hi stanley! there my fiance’s DOB is on 30-05-1989 and mine is aug-03-1984. we were thinking in having our marraiage on dec 28 2013.and my name is vinoddh & her name is tabitha.dec 28 is
    correct for my marraiage.plz tell.

  • Iris

    Good day Stanley.

    We are considering our ROM on 21 Nov, 26 Nov or 2 Dec, which would be best for us?
    Groom : 22 Aug 1985 (Ox)
    Bride : 28 Jan 1986 (Ox)

    Thank you in advance!

  • Jeremiah

    Hi Stanley,

    I’m doing my wedding by next month.

    Me : Monkey 07 – 09 – 1980
    Wife : Dragon 26 – 06 – 1988

    We are look at month of December 2013,any day is fine with us.

    Please advice. Thank you so much.

    Cheers, Jeremiah.

  • Vi

    Hi,
    My fiance and I are planning to get married August 2, 2014. Here are our birth dates: Sep 12, 1983 and Dec 9, 1985. Is this a “good day”? Thank you for your assistance.

    • Stanley

      Hi Vi,

      August 2, 2014 is not only not a good day for marriage, it is also not a good day for you personally. I recommend selecting from the August 2014 wedding dates on my list http://www.pureclassicalfengshui.com/?p=1610 or get it professionally selected at only $88 SGD (for the standard package or $288 for the deluxe package) to ensure the best possible wedding date and time. Small investment for a long term returns as you and your fiance will likely want the auspiciousness of that day to accompany the both of you for the rest of your married life, yes? Might as well get it properly done. :)

  • Miriam

    Hi,

    I found your site very informative. Just wondering what would be a good date for our wedding:

    Groom is Aquarius (Born: Jan 8, 1977) and Bride is Scorpio (Born: Oct 24).

    We are planning to get married within Dec 2-6 this yr OR if not Jan 8.

    hope you could somehow enlighten us. thanks